Sometimes the best memories come from the moments you don’t plan. In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we share stories from our recent trip to St. Louis—including an unforgettable day at the zoo, exploring the City Museum, and how our kids decided their favorite meal was a random Mexican restaurant on the drive up.

We also dive into:

• Why hosting a small group is worth the effort (and how it’s changing our perspective).

• The underrated joy of “grown-up” luggage and a great breakfast spot.

• How the simplest moments—like playing football in a hotel pool—created the biggest laughs with our kids.

Whether you’re planning a big vacation or just looking for intentional ways to connect with family, this episode is packed with encouragement to slow down, laugh more, and enjoy the season you’re in.