In our society, traditional notions of masculinity, reinforced by phrases like "be a man" and "boys will be boys," carry significant consequences. Men, bound by these unwritten rules, face heightened risks to their mental health, with suicide rates three times higher than those of women. These norms dictate that seeking help is a sign of weakness, emotions signify inadequacy, and closeness with other men is taboo. Deviating from these expectations risks exclusion from the "boys' club," compelling men to conform to prove their worth. Despite this, society rarely challenges these norms, perpetuating them through various mediums like social media, movies, and pop culture. In this episode, our guest Dr. Michael Kehler explores the profound impact of these societal expectations on male mental health and the need to redefine masculinity for a more inclusive and compassionate future.
Originally from Kingston, Ontario, Dr. Michael Kehler completed his undergraduate studies at Queen's University before obtaining his PhD from Michigan State University. With 17 years of experience teaching at Western University, he's now a Research Professor in Masculinities' Studies at the University of Calgary. Dr. Kehler collaborates globally, focusing on equity, gender, and masculinity in education. His work addresses critical issues including the unwritten rules of masculinity, violence prevention, body image, and masculinity during the COVID pandemic.
After listening to our conversation with Dr. Kehler, we hope you are one step closer to understanding that maybe it’s time to redefine what it means to “be a man”.
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