SrslyAPodcast

We're joined by Calvin, who was diagnosed with HIV, as he shares his journey with us. 

From how he dealt with first hearing the news and breaking it to his loved ones to guiding us through the testing process and medical costs, he goes through it all in this episode. 

Most importantly, if you are diagnosed with HIV, it does not mean that your life is over. There are medications that you can take to help make the HIV virus undetectable, and hence untransmittable. 

Drop Calvin a DM if you have any more questions @cityjayzee on Instagram! 

Find out more about HIV, Aids, U=U Movement (Undetectable = Untransmittable):

- https://www.instagram.com/uequalsu_sg/?hl=en

- https://www.instagram.com/afa.singapore/?hl=en

Get tested anonymously at any of these clinics:

- https://afa.org.sg/whatwedo/support/ats/

- https://www.tanjongpagarclinic.com/hiv-testing

- http://www.kensingtonfamilyclinic.com/std-hiv/anonymous-hiv-testing

- https://www.dtapclinic.com/hiv/hiv-testing-and-screening/

- https://www.gayhealth.sg/pinkcarpet/

Get at home test kits here:

- https://www.fernehealth.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQiA_8OPBhDtARIsAKQu0gaK2udn1-zG838Fltqs8_fCVYRBNy6iFJg0xfjUxRA3GR8R5VVmzYsaAgDlEALw_wcB

- https://ease-healthcare.com/sti-tests/?gclid=Cj0KCQiA_8OPBhDtARIsAKQu0gZqApL0zQGVKsQJDxcXj_tjo4Veghd8J5WvsVkFpbEifRP9WUV9mHIaAuZXEALw_wcB#

Helplines: 

Action for Aids Singapore

Phone: (65) 6254 0212

Address: 9 Kelantan Lane #03-01 Singapore 208628

DSC Clinic

Phone: 1800 252 1324

Address: 31 Kelantan Lane #01-16 , Singapore 200031

As Will Rogers once said, you never get a second chance to make a first impression. 

We’re joined by Ryan as we delve into whether or not making a good first impression is really as important as it’s made out to be. 

Can first impressions be deceiving? Is it possible to change someone’s impression of you? Tune in to find out!

Vice; a bad or immoral behaviour or habits (Merriam-Webster)

Smoking, drinking, sex, drugs are but a few common “vices” deemed by society. 

Does it make you a bad person if you indulge (legally) in any of these or are people too quick to judge? 

Join us in this episode as we discuss these common “vices”, our thoughts towards them and whether or not we think they define a person’s morality.

If you might be experiencing any symptoms of addiction and would like to seek help, here are some organisations you can turn to:

National Addictions Management Service

Website: https://www.nams.sg/contact-us/Pages/default.aspx

Helpline: 6-RECOVER (6-7326837)

The Cabin Singapore

Website: https://www.thecabinsingapore.com.sg

Helpline: 3158 7621

Promises Healthcare

Website: https://promises.com.sg/services/addictions/

Helpline: +65 6397 7309

WE CARE Community Services 

Website: https://www.wecare.org.sg

Helpline: 3165 8017

Disclaimer: The legal age of consent in Singapore is 16. If you’re having sexual relations, practice safe sex, and ensure that consent has been given or obtained before proceeding.

In this episode, we are joined by Devika, as she bravely shares her experience with sexual violence as a child. 

⚠️Trigger Warning: Sexual Abuse and Trauma 

If you have been or are currently going through a similar situation, you are not alone. 

Here are some resources you can turn to for additional support: 

AWARE Sexual Assault Care Centre (SACC) 

Helpline: +65 6779 0282 

Email: [email protected] 

Website: https://www.aware.org.sg/womens-care-centre/sexual-assault-care-centre-sacc/ 

Sexual Assault Prevention & Response (SAPR) 

Helpline: +65 9139 7015 

Email: [email protected] 

Website: https://www.navymwrsingapore.com/programs/b933890b-bdda-43ed-93fa-73b65eee8fb9 

Family Violence Specialist Centre (FVSC) 

Helpine: +65 6555 0390 

Email: [email protected] 

Website: https://www.pave.org.sg/our-services-fvsc.php 

Note: 

Before engaging in any sexual activity, ensure that both parties have given and obtained consent. Consent is Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic and Specific (F.R.I.E.S). 

The legal age of consent in Singapore is 16.

In Singapore, egg freezing is currently banned. Emma created @myeggsmytime on Instagram to help spark conversations and raise awareness, in hopes that in the future, egg freezing will be legal in Singapore. 

In this episode, we discuss all things pertaining to egg freezing with Emma. We go in-depth on the process of egg freezing, the benefits it can offer, our opinions towards the egg freezing ban in Singapore and what steps we hope will be taken in the future to combat the ban.

Sign this petition to help legalize egg freezing in Singapore: 

https://www.change.org/p/minister-of-social-and-family-development-legalise-social-egg-freezing-in-singapore?utm_content=cl_sharecopy_29314253_en-GB%3A6&recruiter=554081006&utm_source=share_petition&utm_medium=copylink&utm_campaign=share_petition&use_react=false 

Check out @myeggsmytime:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/myeggsmytime?utm_medium=copy_link

Did you know that there is more than one type of Orgasm? Ranging from clitoral orgasms to cervical orgasms, there is a vast range in the world of The Big O. 

We’re joined by Andrea, a love and intimacy coach from The Athena Rising, as we splash into the pool orgasms. What exactly is an orgasm? How do you get them? What are the different types of orgasms you can get? What benefits do they offer? Guess you’ll have to listen to find out ;) 

If you have any questions, drop us a DM @srslyofficial on IG! :) 

Find out more about The Athena Rising:  

Instagram: https://instagram.com/theathenarising?utm_medium=copy_link 

Disclaimer: The legal age of consent in Singapore is 16. If you’re having sexual relations, practice safe sex, and ensure that consent has been given or obtained before proceeding.

If you’ve cried while eating a tub of ice cream at 3AM or left your sorrows behind by clubbing and drinking, we feel you. 

We’re joined by John and Alastair from OverthinkSG as we dive deep into our past heartbreaks. Do guys and girls really deal with breakups differently? What were our worst break up stories?? WTF is breakup sex?! Tune in to find out! 

If you are going through a rough breakup, you are not alone. Here are some helplines you can turn to: 

Samaritans of Singapore (SOS): 

Website: https://www.sos.org.sg 

24-HR Hotline: +65 1800 221 4444 

SAF Hotline: +65 1800 278 0022 

Tinkle Friend: 

Website: https://www.tinklefriend.sg/resources 

TOUCHline: +65 1800 377 2252 

Silver Ribbon Counselling Services: 

Website: https://www.silverribbonsingapore.com/index.html 

Number: +65 6386 1928

In this episode, Sam bravely shares with us his experience being sexually assaulted for 6 years.

⚠️Trigger Warning: Sexual assault, abuse and suicidal tendencies

If you have been or are currently going through a similar situation, you are not alone. 

Here are some resources you can turn to for additional support:

AWARE Sexual Assault Care Centre (SACC)

Helpline: +65 6779 0282

Email: [email protected]

Website: https://www.aware.org.sg/womens-care-centre/sexual-assault-care-centre-sacc/

Sexual Assault Prevention & Response (SAPR)

Helpline: +65 9139 7015

Email: [email protected]

Website: https://www.navymwrsingapore.com/programs/b933890b-bdda-43ed-93fa-73b65eee8fb9

Family Violence Specialist Centre (FVSC)

Helpine: +65 6555 0390

Email: [email protected]

Website: https://www.pave.org.sg/our-services-fvsc.php

Note:

Before engaging in any sexual activity, ensure that both parties have given and obtained consent. Consent is Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic and Specific (F.R.I.E.S).

The legal age of consent in Singapore is 16. 

From clubbing on the weekend with the guys, to swiping on Tinder for wild hookups, our guest shares on the exhilarating life of a single guy in NS! 👀🍻🔥

*NS is National Service in Singapore

Sexual Pleasure is more than just being able to orgasm. 

In this episode, we’re joined with Andrea, a love and intimacy coach from The Athena Rising, as she guides us through the multiple facets surrounding Sexual Pleasure. These include Self VS Partner play, exploration and acceptance of the body and genitalia, open communication, education, health and more. 

If you have any questions, drop us a DM @srslyofficial on IG!

Find out more about The Athena Rising: 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/theathenarising?utm_medium=copy_link

Disclaimer: The legal age of consent in Singapore is 16. If you’re having sexual relations, practice safe sex, and ensure that consent has been given or obtained before proceeding.