Sermon by Stuart Pike
Photo Credit: Jason Pier in DC on Flickr.com
Sermon Text:
Deuteronomy 30: 15-20
Matthew 5: 21-37
It was Tuesday when I read over the lessons for today in the presence of our administrative assistant, Sandra and our volunteer receptionist, Jackie. I think my first words were Oi vey! They saw my dismayed reaction to the Gospel as I read it to them, and my further dismay when I realized that I hadn’t had the forethought to schedule Elliott to preach on this one!
How does one preach on this text, with its graphic images of hacking off body parts in order to save oneself from the fires of hell? Most of you know me well enough to know that I’m really not a fire and brimstone kind of preacher. And how is this Jesus, whom we often portray as so loving and accepting and forgiving, now seeming to be so judgmental all of a sudden? What is that all about?
And these might be considered hard sayings of Jesus – especially in this rather permissive age, not to mention within an ostensibly tolerant and forgiving culture.
Well, after looking further at the lessons – especially the Old Testament and Gospel lessons a little more closely, I can sum it up with this: “God cares about our relationships.”
We’ve all been told many times that God cares about us as individuals, but more than that, God also cares about our relationships. In other words, God not only cares about us, but God also cares about how we are with each other.
In the Gospel lesson here, Jesus is still giving his sermon on the mount. This is the third of four consecutive weeks of readings from the sermon on the mount. This week we have the first few of a series of antitheses. Each one in the form, “You have heard it said … but I say. Each time Jesus quotes a law, but then seems to notch it up further.
Remember that last week Jesus said that he wasn’t here to abolish the law and the prophets, but to fulfill them.
Jesus quotes the law against murder, but then says that it’s not enough just not to murder, but that we must also treat one another with respect, and that means not saying hateful words to each other.
Jesus says it’s not enough just not to commit adultery, but we must also not treat people as objects to satisfy our imaginations and lusting after them
Then for probably the hardest saying to our ears: He quotes the law about divorce, but then says that it was because of hardness of heart that this law was given. He says that it’s not enough for us to follow the letter of the law regarding divorce, but that we must not treat other people as disposable.
Jesus says it is not enough for us to not swear falsely, or tell lies, but that we must truthful lives, so that we don’t have the need to make oaths at all.
God cares about our relationships. God cares about the commitments that we make to each other. God wants us to live in right relationship with each other.
Now it would be the easier thing for me to simply move on to another point in the Gospel, but I really feel that I should face the hardest saying of Jesus head on.
We live in such a culture of self-gratification. We call it by nobler names, such as self-fulfillment, but at the heart of it is still the feeding of the ego and our own desires. Other people can become objects or they can just be considered disposable as we move on.
Now I know that there are all sorts of reasons why marriages break down, and that very often it is not the choice of both of the parties, but it is disheartening the number of times I meet someone whose marriage had dissolved after years of trouble and yet the couple never once went for counseling. It seems to happen more and more.
Usually when I am preparing people for marriage, they are in the exciting dopy