God still holds up perfection as the goal, because it should be, shouldn’t it? It is right and good and natural and noble that when a couple marries, they think big, they plan to be together forever; they don’t intend to mess up, neglect each other, or just drift apart. But if Jesus were standing here now talking about marriage, I think he’d remind us of this sobering truth that we’re all members of the Club of the Broken. Yes, let’s aim high – in all our relationships – let’s aim and being the best parents, children, siblings, friends, co-workers, church members we can. We’ve got to aim high, haven’t we? The love of God compels us to. But let’s remember that we’re broken.