Rules and routines are helpful, but what truly impacts your child’s growth and compliance is who you are and how you show up as a parent. In this week’s video, Shane dives into why your example carries more weight than any parenting system and how to focus on becoming a parent worth following.

What you will discover

• Why focusing on your own growth is the most impactful thing you can do for your kids.
• Practical ways to align your daily actions with the values you want your children to learn.
• The two biggest reasons certain people leave a lasting influence on your life.

Discover a bold approach to stop beating yourself up over mistakes. In this episode, Shane shares a relatable story of frustration, guilt, and eventual growth, showing how to turn moments of imperfection into powerful opportunities for progress. With a simple 3-step system, you’ll learn how to reframe your mindset, align with your core values, and take real, actionable steps toward a better version of yourself.

· How to connect your mistakes to the core values that make you who you are.

· Why unresolved shame creates a toxic cycle—and how to break free.

· The power of making amends to repair relationships and restore your integrity.

In this episode, we dive into why life coaching is a game-changer for parents and teens. You’ll hear personal stories and learn how coaching helps you break cycles, build confidence, and find peace amidst the chaos of parenting. Whether you’re striving for excellence or dealing with a family crisis, this episode provides actionable insights to create positive change.

What Awaits You in This Episode:

• How to break patterns from your own upbringing for healthier relationships
• Proven strategies for building confidence in yourself and your teen
• How coaching provides clarity and peace of mind, especially during stressful times

Why do so many of us downplay our successes, dim our light, and shy away from owning our worth?

In this episode, Shane dives into the societal conditioning that keeps us small and shares powerful steps to break free. Learn how to embrace positive self-talk, redefine humility, and model confidence for your family and community.

What you will discover:

• Why society conditions us to downplay our achievements.
• How minimizing yourself impacts your self-esteem and relationships.
• Practical steps to shift your mindset and words toward self-empowerment.

Learn how to talk to yourself like someone worth listening to (because you are).

Being a parent isn’t easy, but here’s the truth, you’re doing better than you realize. In this episode, Shane highlights the incredible efforts parents make every day, even when it doesn’t feel like enough. Learn how to recognize your strengths, build confidence, and create a positive environment by shifting your focus to what’s going right.

What You’ll Discover:

• Tools to reinforce positive self-talk and boost confidence.
• How celebrating your wins creates stronger connections with your kids.
• Why self-compassion makes you a better role model for your children.

In this episode, Shane Jacob unpacks why kids act out and why it doesn't mean you're failing as a parent. Discover how to respond with confidence, understanding, and purpose, and why recognizing your own awesomeness is key to changing the cycle.

What you will discover:

• How shame erodes connection and leads to negative cycles.
• Practical steps to move from reaction to intentional parenting.
• The impact of your self-talk on your child’s behavior.

Overwhelm isn’t about your to-do list—it’s about your mindset. In this episode, Shane breaks down why parents of teens get stuck in overwhelm and how to stop feeling frozen. You’ll learn how indecision fuels stress, why confidence is the key to action, and what you can do today to move forward.

What you will discover:

• The real reason we avoid making decisions
• Why buffering (like drinking, overeating, or scrolling) makes overwhelm worse
• A simple strategy to start making decisions quickly

Join Shane Jacob as he shares how he turned failure into fuel, and how you can do the same. Listen and learn how to stop letting the odds control your life and start living with true intention.

What You Will Discover:

• How to unlock unstoppable self-belief and live boldly no matter the odds.
• That radical change is within reach.
• How to rebuild trust and relationships after personal setbacks or mistakes.

Is your teen struggling to make friends or feeling left out? In this episode, learn expert-backed strategies to help them build confidence, navigate peer relationships, and form lasting friendships. Discover why parenting as leadership (not friendship) is the key to raising socially strong and resilient teens.

What You Will Discover:

• The biggest mistake parents make when trying to help their teen build friendships
• How self-confidence directly impacts your teen’s social life (and how to strengthen it)
• A powerful lesson from horses that will change how you guide your teen’s relationships

Breakups can hit teens hard, leaving them feeling lost and vulnerable. In this episode, we’ll discuss 16 ways to help your teen navigate heartbreak with self-respect and grace. From understanding emotions to building confidence, you’ll learn actionable steps to guide them through one of life’s toughest challenges.

What You Will Discover

• Why first love or first sexual experiences don’t define them—or their worth.
• Why it’s okay for your teen to feel bad sometimes—and how to help them through it.
• The power of sharing their story with trusted people and the role of prayer or reflection.