Stacey & J Sbu

Aunty Stacey and Uncle J Sbu opened the kiddies hotline this Wednesday with something that made the kiddos think! The children of KZN sent in voice notes telling us what they do to make someone smile if they're having a bad day. We heard everything from giving out flowers to kisses and we couldn't get enough of the adorable little ones!

Stacey and J Sbu spoke with Sheree from Overport, who noted that it's important not to sit on the fold-up seats in a taxi and to be more outspoken! She shared that she missed a few stops due to her soft-spoken demeanour. Stacey spoke about paying more attention to the stops made by buses after she skipped her destination by talking too much! The people of KZN were full of lessons.

Fun means something different to everyone and Stacey Norman and J Sbu want to know more. The dynamic duo asked East Coasters what they do for fun and we heard everything from reading to hoola hooping!

Tune in if you missed it live to hear if KZNers think the same way you do.

Stacey Norman and J Sbu decided to tackle the topic of silent treatment in the show's second hour. The dynamic duo had a discussion about how long they could give someone the silent treatment before KZN tuned in. We heard some crazy answers about how long people can keep the silent treatment going.

Stacey Norman and J Sbu asked KZN what they have on their to-do lists for this week. The duo started by sharing that this week, we're counting down to J Sbu's birthday and the Suncoast ECR Big Walk.

Zama from Westville called to let us know about a presentation she had today that required her to find notes from 2023. Stacey and J Sbu shared some words of wisdom with her!

Stacey Norman and J Sbu asked East Coasters what time they expect to be home if they're going out late. We heard every answer from 8 pm to 10 am the next day! KZNers shared the reasons why they came home at these specific times, and we were intrigued.

Iconic performer Joseph Clark joined Stacey Norman and J Sbu on air and shared a stunning rendition of a familiar song but with a Durban twist! If you missed out on this magnificent vocalist, we've got you covered. Get ready for a short yet mind-blowing performance.

Stacey Norman and J Sbu asked East Coasters what they would name their boat if they had one. We heard about the "Reel Slim Shanty" from 12-year-old Dom, a die-hard Eminem fan. Your favourite drive duo also learned that there are some rules to naming your boat. Listen in to learn more!

Stacey Norman and J Sbu asked KZN what their little treat is this Thursday. One East Coaster called in to let us know how she hides sweets and chocolates around her house, forgets where she left them and has a surprise treat every time she locates one. Oh how we wish we were her!

Tying the knot is a momentous occasion, signifying a lifelong commitment and the blossoming of a new family unit. But what about the individuals within that unit? Does marriage fundamentally alter who we are?

Several factors can influence how people change after marriage. Here are just two key considerations:

Shared Lives, Shared Goals: Marriage often ushers in a period of intense couple-centricity. Psychology Today states that partners may prioritise shared goals, like buying a house or raising children, which can impact their individual pursuits.

External Pressures: Societal expectations and family dynamics can also play a role. A partner may feel pressure to conform to certain roles or expectations after marriage.

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It's important to remember that change is inevitable throughout life, not just in marriage. However, marriage can provide a unique environment for personal evolution. Here are some tips for navigating this shift:

Maintain Individuality: While building a life together, nurturing your individual passions and interests is crucial. Make time for hobbies and social connections outside the marriage, according to Psychology Today.

Open Communication: Honest and open communication is key to a healthy marriage. Discuss your hopes, dreams, and anxieties about how your lives might change after marriage.

Embrace Growth: See change as an opportunity for personal development, not a loss of individuality. Celebrate each other's growth and support each other's goals, reports Forbes.

Marriage is a beautiful journey of companionship and growth. By acknowledging the potential for change and fostering open communication, couples can navigate this transition with grace and understanding.