Stacks and the City

Hello wonderful people. On today's episode, I delve into how I failed at entrepreneurship three times- and counting. I don't think we hear enough information on how entrepreneuship is difficult, frustrating, and a constant failure. This isn't an episode where I tell you it gets better and to keep going. It's an episode where I tell you honestly how difficult this journey has been. It has cost me thousands of dollars, put my relationship in jeopardy, and has made me feel deflated. Sometimes I don't know if this is meant for me. Nonetheless, I always want to share with you every aspect of this life. Please take a listen and thank you for supporting.

Also, I have listened to your messages and comments. It is great to hear from you and know you are not alone. I feel the same way that many of you feel. You are amazing.

Hello everyone! Today I talk about the job search and why it has been so hard to get a job.

Hello everyone! This is Ashley from Stacks and the City and I want to share with you why I feel like the information that radiates social media on our 30s is 100% a lie: and here's why:

Lie #1: You're so much more confident in the way you look.

NOT TRUE AT ALLLL- especially when you factor having children, weight gain, and this strange new word: collagen. There's even more pressure to market to women based on us "aging". Between that and seeing yourself look slightly different than you did before it's tough!!!

Lie #2: You Career Starts to Thrive

Can I share a secret? I have never had a promotion in my life- EVER. As a result, my career is not as popping as I'd want. Between not pursuring graduate education and (unsuccessfully) pursuing entrprenuership twice, I'm feeling a little defeated.

Lie #3: Meaningful Relationships:

The most interesting part of being in your 30s is the relationships you have continue to shift and (sometimes) erode. Between your friends becoming more insular with their families, and being hard to find new friends, relationships are really difficult to create and maintain.

Are there any things in your 30s that you find interesting? What have you been told about in your 30s?

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Hello everyone. I wanted to let you know about the future of Stacks and the City. I always strive to be real and honest with you. Let me know what you think!

Hello everyone! Today I talk about the different ways to budget and where it comes from. Do you keep a budget? Are you a budget person? Let me know!

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Good morning everyone and happy Monday. I had the pleasure of attending (and participating in!) the wedding of a wonderful friend of mine. It was truly beautiful, romantic, and celebratory. HOWEVER- being a bridesmaid wasn't cheap AT ALL! There were so many things we had to pay for- including dresses, makeup, transportation, last minute what have yous- it's insane! Luckily for you, I have three tips on how to save money in this seemingly money pit of a role. Do we love love and celebrating our loved ones? Absolutely? Do we want to get into debt for other people's life choices? Absolutely not. Take a listen and SUBSCRIBE!

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Today's episode we delve into the strange world of the sale. Why do we sell? How much can I make from the sale of a home? What's the process of the home sale like? I discuss my feelings and what the process is like in this episode and more.

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It's time to stop beating around the bush and share the actual numbers that I made investing in rental properties. Is it worth it? What were the expenses? How much did I keep? What did I spend all of that money on? I will have this answered and so much more in this episode. Please comment and let me know what you think!

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Hello wonderful people! Today's solo episode is going to be all about how to find the perfect real estate agent for you. No raggedy real estate agents in 2023! We want to make sure there's an agent that works for you and your needs. Here are the questions you should consider when looking for agents.

1.   How many years of experience do you have?

2.  What types of clients do you mostly work with?

3.  What is the median income for clients?

4.  Do you know of any down payment assistance programs in my area?

5.  What area/zip code/neighborhood do you work in?

6.  What property have you most recently sold and for how much?

7.   Do you have any clients you worked with in the last six months I can connect with?

8.   What resources do you offer first time homebuyers?

9.   How long does it take for clients to buy their first home? What is your process?

10.  Why should I work with you?

Hello wonderful people! It's so great to be back chatting with you. We're changing it up a bit from our normally scheduled programming to speak on something that will put a well meaning person financially out- a wedding and bachelorette season. It is high. I have some tips on my own expereince on how to save and prepare for an expensive wedding season. At the end of the day remember- this is NOT your wedding. YOU did not decide to get married or make this big step. Therefore, YOU are not obligated to pay for it.

 HOWEVER 

It is important to recognize and support your friend/family member in their important time in their life. Be transparent and honest with what you can afford. Support your friend in any way you can. Brides, be clear and let your bride know as soon as possible what costs will be anticipated for the bridal party.  

Weddings are expensive for the bride, groom, and everyone involved. Be as prepared as possible and SAVE EARLY! 

Stay fabulous.