I know you're sitting there watching Felicia down the street who DOES all the things.  She's on all the committees and does everything with all of her kids.  And you're judging her a bit and you are annoyed with her a bit.  CHECK YO SELF momma.... Why are you comparing yourself to her in the first place?  Why is she so triggering for you (what do you have inside that's  not healed or whole)?  What boundary do you need to set so that you are showing up as the best version of you and so that you can quit judging her?