Although they assisted in raising you… You don’t owe them anything!!!! and that can go for your brother, sister, mother, father, aunts and uncles and grandparents. I say this because often times we feel that we owe our lives to the ones who were responsible for us. You don’t want to make them look bad, or let them down, or be the “Black Sheep” of the family. Granted, they had a hand in shaping who you are today and who you will be come… You do not owe them your life!