This episode of the Beautiful Work Beautiful Life explores what it means to stay open enough to find safety in a world that can often feel emotionally and psychologically unsafe. 

Through personal stories, honest reflection, and grounded conversation, Laurel Boivin and Laurel Holland unpack the connection between trust, nervous system regulation, self-expression, and psychological safety.

The conversation explores how many of us learned to stay small, quiet, or guarded in order to protect ourselves — and how healing often requires us to gently practice showing up differently. From using your voice in difficult conversations to navigating anxiety, boundaries, authenticity, and self-trust, this episode offers a compassionate look at the inner work of building safety through lived experience.

Listeners are reminded that safety is not always something we find outside ourselves first. Sometimes it’s something we build, one courageous moment, one conversation, and one authentic expression at a time.

Episode Highlights:

• The relationship between trust, nervous system regulation, and psychological safety

• Why staying open can feel difficult when anxiety or fear is present

• How lived experience helps build self-trust and emotional resilience

• The role of voice, authenticity, and boundaries in creating inner safety

• Practical grounding and self-regulation tools for navigating difficult situations

Journaling prompts are suggested to further your exploration. 

1. Where in my life do I tend to close down or hold back in order to feel safe?

2. What situations invite me to practice using my voice more fully and authentically?

3. How does my nervous system respond when I feel emotionally or psychologically unsafe?

4. What helps me stay grounded, calm, and connected to myself in challenging moments?

5. What might become possible if I trusted myself enough to stay open instead of retreating?

Host/Cohost/Guest Info

Guiding others to become effective leaders of their own lives, Laurel Holland has been on a journey of awakening and transformation throughout her life. Writing about inner work, Laurel has authored four books, including Crossroads and Love’s 8 Laws. Her books, Live Your Inner Power, the Journal, and Courageous Woman, introduce, share, and explore the eight foundational practices for creating transformation from the inside out. Through her books, programs, and innovative talks, Laurel’s great desire is to lift others up and courageously step into the life they came here to live. You can learn more about Laurel, her books, and work she does at www.liveyourinnerpower.com.
Laurel Boivin is a leadership coach, speaker, and workshop facilitator. Founder of Flux+Flow Professional Coaching, Laurel works with high-performing professionals and mission-driven organizations to shift from achievement to alignment — helping them connect deeply to purpose, lead with confidence, and create environments where people thrive.  A Reiki master and yoga practitioner, collector of sea glass and antiques, she lives in New Hampshire and summers in Maine.  You can learn more about Laurel and the work she does at www.fluxflowcoaching.com.

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