Description
In this episode of Beautiful Work Beautiful Life, cohosts Laurel Holland and Laurel Boivin begin exploring what oppression is and why recognizing it is an essential part of the journey toward self-liberation.
Starting with traditional dictionary definitions and expanding into a broader understanding of oppression, they examine how oppression can exist not only in external systems and structures, but also within our own beliefs, behaviors, and patterns.
Through conversations about people-pleasing, inherited conditioning, abuse of power, patriarchy, self-discipline, and personal responsibility, they invite listeners to consider where they may be feeling weighed down, limiting themselves, or unintentionally limiting others.
At its heart, this conversation isn't simply about freedom from oppression—it's about the freedom to live authentically. By uncovering the beliefs, expectations, and conditioning that shape our lives, we create the possibility of becoming more fully ourselves and making choices that align with who we truly are. This episode lays the foundation for a season devoted to the inner work of self-awareness, authenticity, and self-liberation.
In This Episode
What oppression is—and why understanding it matters
The difference between external oppression and self-oppression
How people-pleasing can become a form of self-oppression
Why abuse of power isn't always external
The role of systems, culture, and conditioning in shaping our beliefs
How authenticity begins with recognizing what is limiting your freedom to be yourself
Why true freedom comes through self-awareness and self-discipline
Recognizing that we can experience oppression and unintentionally oppress others
Definitions:
To oppress: crush by abuse of power or authority; weigh down or burden.
Oppression: the unjust or cruel exercise of power or authority; a system or pattern that limits people's opportunity, dignity, freedom, safety, or ability to be fully themselves.
Journaling prompts
- Where in your life do you feel weighed down or burdened in a way that prevents you from being your authentic self?
- What beliefs, expectations, or roles have you accepted simply because they were considered "normal"?
- Where might you be giving away your own power—or misusing it toward yourself or others?
- Where have you experienced oppression in your own life, and how might those experiences still influence your beliefs or choices today?
- What is one belief, behavior, or expectation you're ready to question as you continue your journey toward living more authentically?
Authors mentioned: Wallace Wattles
Host/Cohost/Guest Info
Guiding others to become effective leaders of their own lives, Laurel Holland has been on a journey of awakening and transformation throughout her life. Writing about inner work, Laurel has authored four books, including Crossroads and Love’s 8 Laws. Her books, Live Your Inner Power, the Journal, and Courageous Woman, introduce, share, and explore the eight foundational practices for creating transformation from the inside out. Through her books, programs, and innovative talks, Laurel’s great desire is to lift others up and courageously step into the life they came here to live. You can learn more about Laurel, her books, and work she does at www.liveyourinnerpower.com.
Laurel Boivin is a leadership coach, speaker, and workshop facilitator. Founder of Flux+Flow Professional Coaching, Laurel works with high-performing professionals and mission-driven organizations to shift from achievement to alignment, helping them connect deeply to purpose, lead with confidence, and create environments where people thrive. A Reiki master and yoga practitioner, collector of sea glass and antiques, she lives in New Hampshire and summers in Maine. You can learn more about Laurel and the work she does at www.fluxflowcoaching.com.
The email to send questions to Laurel Boivin is [email protected] and for Laurel Holland - [email protected].