I used to believe power was about controlāthe loudest voice in the room, the one who made the rules while the rest of us adapted. But life had other lessons for me. Through hard experiences, mistakes, and unexpected teachers (some with fur, some with hooves), Iāve come to understand that real power has nothing to do with dominance. Itās about presence. About alignment. About being someone worth followingānot because I forced it, but because of how I chose to show up.
š¹ What Youāll Find in This Episode:
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The moment I realized I had given my power awayāand why it haunted me for years
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How a German Shepherd mix & a 1,800-pound Shire horse challenged my understanding of leadership
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The difference between "power-over" and "power-with"āand why one is crumbling
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Why control is rooted in fear, and true power doesnāt need to dominate
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How stepping into my power changed everythingāwithout aggression or force
š„ The Shift: Power-Over vs. Power-With š„
ā” āReal power doesnāt need controlāonly fear does.ā ā”
For years, I feared stepping into my power, afraid it would turn me into something I didnāt want to be. But I was wrong. The only people who abuse power are the ones who donāt actually have it.
As we move into the Age of Aquarius, the old dominance-based power structures are breaking. Collaboration, trust, and self-sovereignty are replacing control, fear, and submission. The question is: Are we ready to step into power-with?
I donāt claim to have all the answersāIām still learning, just like you. But if this resonates, letās explore it together. Step Up with me.
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What does power mean to you? Have you ever felt the difference between power-over and power-with? Share your thoughts in the comments!
š Other Topics You Might Like:
š¹ Empowerment ā What it means to step into personal power
š¹ Self-Awareness Requires Courage ā Why true strength starts within
š¹ Importance of Discernment ā Learning to recognize control vs. true leadership
š¹ A Closer Look at Fear ā How fear disguises itself as power
š¹ Triggers are an Invitation ā Using power struggles as a path to healing
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