Coming to terms with my sexuality wasn’t a single moment or announcement. It happened slowly, over years, often without me noticing. In this episode, I talk through that process: growing up without role models, learning how to mute parts of myself, and building a life long before I ever thought of it as a “journey.”

Then I watched/read Heated Rivalry. The characters and story acted as a mirror for me, giving me a clearer view of that past and made me realize the journey I'd undertaken almost 20 years ago. This episode isn’t a review or a hot take. It’s a reflection on a life accidentally well lived, despite its start.

How does a relationship go from mostly monogamous to openly exploring kink, desire, and visibility? In this episode, I go back to the beginning: telling the story of how my husband and I stumbled into content creation, cracked open conversations we didn’t know we needed to have, and started rethinking what intimacy looked like for us.

It’s a reflective, sometimes funny look at negotiation, trust, and curiosity and how one unexpected experience changed the shape of our relationship. This isn’t a how-to or a fantasy; it’s a story about alignment, permission, and open communication.

Hey there! A pre-prequel if you will as we kick the podcast off. I'm still dealing with lingering flu so just wanted to give everyone a little taste of what's to come.