Still Figuring it Out

What if happiness doesn’t actually feel the way we think it should?

In this episode, we’re talking about the strange reality of being happy while still wanting more, having bad days without questioning your entire life, and getting so used to the things you once wanted that they eventually just feel… normal.

Maybe we’ve been overthinking happiness this whole time.

Do you ever feel like you should be further along by now?

Like everyone around you is moving forward, figuring out their career, relationships, money, future… while you’re still trying to figure out what the hell you’re doing?

Same.

In the first episode of Still Figuring It Out, Lily, talks about feeling behind, the invisible timelines we create for ourselves, comparing our lives to other people’s, and the pressure to have everything figured out by a certain age.

Because maybe being uncertain doesn’t mean you’re behind. Maybe it just means you’re still becoming.

You don’t need to know exactly where your life is going. You just need to figure out the next step.

So if you’ve ever felt behind, lost, or like everyone else got a handbook that you somehow missed—this one’s for you.