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This week on Still Figuring It Out, Josh and Brett recap the end of the Thunder-Spurs playoff rivalry and dive into the NBA Finals. Josh shares the incredible story of how a joking Facebook post turned into a community-funded trip to Game 1 of the NBA Finals, complete with long merch lines, celebrity sightings, and the highs and lows of watching his team lose in person.

The conversation also covers outrageous Madison Square Garden ticket prices, fan culture, social media antics, a local cornhole tournament, Sand Bass Festival adventures, family life, travel stories, and future cruise plans across Asia. From basketball heartbreak to parenting chaos and dreams of moving to Spain, it’s another episode full of sports, laughs, and real-life conversations.

Join Josh and Brett as they continue trying to make sense of sports, family, travel, and everything in between while still figuring it out.

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This week, Josh and Britt take a break from the deeper topics and simply catch up on life. From a late-night flat tire on a bridge and unexpected roadside heroes to family birthday parties, Vegas travel stories, and an unforgettable road trip to San Antonio, there’s plenty to unpack.

The conversation eventually turns into a full-blown basketball discussion as Josh shares his experiences attending multiple Western Conference Finals games between the Spurs and Thunder. The guys debate crowd atmospheres, NBA officiating, flopping, player rivalries, championship aspirations, and what makes certain athletes fan favorites.

Whether you’re here for the life updates, the sports talk, or just two friends having an authentic conversation, this episode is exactly what Still Figuring It Out is all about.

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In part two of this special series, Josh, Britt, and Jerod open up about fatherhood from three completely different perspectives. From adoption and step-parenting to co-parenting after divorce, this episode dives into the moments that truly define being a dad. The guys share emotional stories about loss, blended families, learning to show up for their kids, and realizing that fatherhood is about far more than DNA. This is an honest conversation about love, growth, sacrifice, faith, and the responsibility of raising children in a complicated world. Whether you’re a biological dad, bonus dad, adopted dad, or someone still figuring it out, this episode will hit home.

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In this episode of Still Figuring It Out, Josh and Britt sit down with their first guest, Jerod Lyons, for an honest conversation about what it really means to be a man in today’s world.

From growing up with different father figures to learning leadership through marriage, parenting, faith, and failure, the guys unpack the pressures men silently carry every day. They talk about pride, emotional vulnerability, financial stress, discipline, marriage, raising daughters and sons, and the struggle of trying to “hold it all together.”

This episode dives into the difference between control and leadership, why communication matters in marriage, and how becoming a better man often means unlearning what the world taught you growing up.

WHAT IS A MAN?
L: Leader
O: Obedient
R: Responsible
D: Dedicated

Real conversations. Real struggles. Three men still figuring it out.

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In this Mother’s Day episode of Still Figuring It Out, Josh and Britt have an honest conversation about one of the biggest struggles in marriage : communication. From forgetting Walmart runs and tuning out conversations, to pride, shutting down during arguments, and trying to balance busy family life, they open up about the real issues many husbands face but rarely talk about.

This episode is not about having all the answers. It is about recognizing the problem, trying to grow, and figuring it out one day at a time. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, defensive, distracted, or just bad at communicating with your spouse, this conversation will probably hit home.

The guys also discuss:
 • Why small issues become big fights
 • How pride affects communication
 • Feeling unheard and unappreciated
 • Scheduling intentional time together
 • Communication struggles with money, parenting, and daily life
 • Why silence never really solves anything
 • Practical things they are trying to improve

As always, Josh and Britt are not experts. They are just two husbands trying to learn, grow, and do better.

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In this episode of Still Figuring It Out, Josh and Britt break down the reality of male friendships. Why can guys go months without talking and pick right back up? Why does roasting each other actually build trust instead of breaking it? And why is it so hard for men to open up when it actually matters?

They get into the different types of friend groups, the unspoken loyalty between guys, and the truth about showing up when it counts. From trash talk and competition to accountability, mental struggles, and faith, this episode digs into what real friendship actually looks like for men.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re being the kind of friend you’d want to have, or when the last time you checked on your boys was, this one hits home.

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This week we’re talking about dad fails. You know those moments when you feel like you’ve got parenting completely under control… until everything falls apart.

We get into the confidence, the chaos, and the reality checks that come with being a dad. From thinking you nailed it to realizing you absolutely did not, this episode is all about those humbling moments that keep us grounded.

If you’ve ever been riding high as a dad and then got knocked back to reality real quick, this one’s for you. It’s honest, it’s funny, and it’s way too relatable.

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In this episode of Still Figuring It Out, we get real about one of the most frustrating parts of parenting… trying to teach your own kids.

Whether it’s homework, sports, or just simple everyday tasks, it can be tough when something that feels easy to you just doesn’t click for them. We talk about the pressure we put on our kids, the frustration we feel in the moment, and the reality that sometimes the problem isn’t them… it’s us.

From math struggles to life lessons, we share our own experiences of losing patience, learning from it, and trying to do better. At the end of the day, it’s not just about what we’re teaching… it’s how we’re teaching it.

If you’re a parent, you’ll definitely relate to this one.

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Episode 2 gets real about a different kind of faith, the kind people put in you every day.

We’re not talking about church. We’re talking about the pressure of being the one your family depends on, the one your job relies on, and the one your friends call when things go wrong.

From providing for your family and handling finances, to the stress of sales, expectations you didn’t ask for, and trying to hold it all together when you feel like you’re falling short, we break down what that weight really feels like.

We also get into the stuff people don’t see. The quiet stress. The moments you fake confidence. The times your kids believe in you more than you believe in yourself.

This episode is about pressure, responsibility, and learning how to carry it the right way without losing yourself in the process.

At some point, you have to stop living off everyone else’s expectations and start building your own foundation.

We’re still figuring it out. Maybe you are too.

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In our first episode of Still Figuring It Out, we introduce ourselves, share our backgrounds, and talk about why we decided to start this podcast. We’re two dads, husbands, and working professionals trying to balance life, family, and everything in between.

We talk about where we come from, what we do, and what listeners can expect from this podcast moving forward. This isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about having real conversations while we figure life out as we go.

New episodes drop every Sunday.

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