Dating women comes with a few surprises no one really warns you about.

In this episode, we unpack the expectations vs reality of dating women, the emotional awareness, the trauma, the jealousy, the communication, the things that shocked us, and the parts of lesbian relationships that aren't always talked about.

From bad dates to relationship dynamics to the infamous Tessa & Riley Jacob Elordi situation… this one gets honest, chaotic, and very Still Not Straight.

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Still Not Straight is BACK for Season 3… and a LOT has happenedAfter a minute away, Tessa & Shannen are catching you up on life, chaos, questionable universe signs, exes making unexpected appearances (because… of course), and everything in between.But somehow this episode takes a turn into one of our favourite conversations yet:What were the signs you were gay… before you knew you were gay?The childhood clues. The “very straight” obsessions that absolutely were not straight. The friendships. The denial. The hindsight moments that now make way too much sense.If you've ever looked back at your life and thought “oh… THAT should’ve been my first clue” this one's for you.Let us know what’s your biggest “how did I not know I was gay?” sign in the comments. Keep up to date with the chaos:InstagramTikTokMerch

The girls understood the assignment.

This one is pure chaos, laughter, and a little bit of very honest advice.

This week on Still Not Straight, we’re diving into:

- The ultimate ICKS


- Unsolicited advice no one asked for (but everyone needs)

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How to actually deal with a breakup without losing your mind

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How to become more irresistible (according to us, so take it with a grain of salt)


We even manage to make Tessa blush, which honestly might be the biggest achievement of the season.

It’s fun, it’s chaotic, and it’s a little bit rogue.

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The most requested guest is officially BACK, Riley is in the studio and yes… it’s just as chaotic as you’d expect.

We catch up with the girls, dive into everything you’ve been dying to know, and finally ask the questions that have been sitting in your group chats. 

From updates, stories, and a few unexpected moments, this episode feels like one big catch-up, until we decide to take things up a notch.

Because there’s one very specific way to make Tessa rage… and naturally, we had to test it.

Let’s just say Riley was not a very willing participant but we did it and we may or may not have pushed things a little too far 

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Well… that escalated quickly.

What started as a chaotic blind date experiment somehow turned into something very real, because the date went so well that now she’s officially on the couch.

Yes, you heard correctly, Shannen has a girlfriend.

Ladies (and maybe gents)… it’s time to officially meet G.

Tessa is obviously thrilled, slightly shocked, and already asking the questions everyone else is thinking.

It’s cute, chaotic, and a little bit surreal but we’re here for it.

Welcome to the next chapter of the Still Not Straight dating experiment… because apparently it worked.

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This week’s episode of Still Not Straight is completely unhinged and honestly, we don’t think we’ve laughed this hard in an episode before.

Ladies (and gents)… it’s finally time to meet the woman responsible for bringing Shannen into the world — her mum, Michelle. 

Michelle joins the girls in the studio and wastes absolutely no time sharing stories, memories, and the kind of mum insights that only a parent can deliver. Nothing is off limits and yes, Tessa is loving every second of it.

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You’ve heard the stories. You’ve seen the clips. And now… she’s finally in the studio.

The one and only, slightly chaotic, wildly entertaining Aunty Shannika joins us on Still Not Straight, and yes, she absolutely understood the assignment.

After popping off on Twitch and building her own little internet cult following, Shannika is bringing her wisdom, her hot takes, and her completely unfiltered Tessa stories to the show.

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We’re back with another episode of Still Not Straight, and this one turns into a full-blown lesbian debate.

What are the things Tessa and Shannen do not agree on?
Turns out… quite a lot.

This week, we unpack:


• Being public vs keeping things private

• Emotional attraction vs physical attraction, what actually matters more?

• And the controversial one… why do some lesbians only date straight girls?

It gets honest. It gets heated. It gets a little too real.

But before we spiral completely, we can agree on one thing:
Tessa and the producers absolutely smashed the blind date episode. Credit where it’s due.

This episode is playful, chaotic, and surprisingly deep, the kind of conversation that starts as banter and ends with you questioning your entire dating history.

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We set Shannen up on a blind date… but there’s a twist.

Tessa is secretly feeding her lines through an earpiece the entire time. Yes. We did that. What could go wrong?

From smooth one-liners to completely rogue suggestions, this blind date turns into part romance, part social experiment, part lesbian chaos. And honestly? We think we might be onto something here… Is this the future of dating?
Is Shannen actually smooth… or is it just Tessa pulling the strings?
And most importantly, will there be a second date?

It’s awkward. It’s hilarious. It’s slightly manipulative (but in a loving way).


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Your favourite lesbians are back!

Tessa and Shannen officially kick off Season Two of Still Not Straight and what better week to do it than the week of love 💘

In this episode, we dive head-first into all things love and Valentine’s Day, the good, the cringe, and the slightly unhinged. We also catch up on what we got up to over summer, where the tea is HOT and yes… Tessa is a little bit bitter about something (you’ll know when you hear it 😏).

New season, same energy, still not straight.

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