Look, I like politeness. The mix of politeness and boundaries is chef kiss to me. I am not criticising people that struggle setting boundaries though, but can we just cut the bs sometimes? What about the beauty of

✦✧✹directness✦✧✹

It's great, we should practice it more, little by little, create the habit, I advocate for it. Come on... Fake kindness doesn't feel right for any of the parties anyways.

This case study is part of my London diaries.

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About this podcast:

I love decoding and conceptualising the invisible yet powerful information that surrounds me on a regular basis and I love talking so this is me sharing absolutely everything I think about as I am constantly philosophising on life and relationships and also studying the human body, learning about biology, and hacks on how to make myself feel as delicious as possible so yes my main goal in life is to live deliciously. Good news is that I achieved it long ago actually I am just doing fun maintenance to my lifestyle and improving improving improving optimising for deliciousness and fun so if this is something that rings your bells well you are more than welcome to join the party btw I am not here to tell you how to live I am here to tell you how I live and how I see the world you are fully capable of making your own mind and decisions. Now, some good loving words intended to help position this episode. Feel free to ignore: Politeness, genuine words, directness, hypocrisy, fear of speaking your mind, people-pleasing, communication styles, authenticity, social norms, emotional honesty, confrontation, passive-aggressiveness, cultural differences, assertiveness, self-expression, social anxiety, inner conflict, personal boundaries, London culture, societal expectations, hey if you are reading this I love you xoxoxo