After returning from a trip to Germany, Zane dives into a major mindset shift sparked by reading No More Mr. Nice Guy.

In this episode, he breaks down how childhood experiences shaped his “nice guy” tendencies—and how those patterns are still affecting his confidence, dating life, and relationships with women today.

Zane gets real about:

* Why constantly seeking approval is holding him back

* How being “too nice” can kill attraction

* The hidden downside of always putting others first

* Why he struggles to express his true personality and desires

* The importance of male role models and mentorship

* What it actually means to stop being a “nice guy” (without becoming a jerk)

This episode is a turning point: less people-pleasing, more authenticity, and learning to put his own needs first—one rep at a time.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re holding back who you really are… this one will hit.