Having It A.L.L.

Stop Drifting—The 5 W’s That Realign Your Life


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Are you really living... or just reacting?

In this episode, I’m handing you a tool for deep, no-BS introspection: the 5 W’s of Radical Self Awareness.

This isn’t some surface-level journaling prompt. This is a mirror. A spotlight. A call-out and a call-forward—all in one.

You'll explore:

  • Who is influencing your thoughts, energy, and identity

  • What you’re truly committed to (and what you say you're committed to)

  • When you tend to abandon yourself

  • Where your environments are either draining or fueling you

  • Why you haven’t leapt yet—even though you know it’s time

    This episode was sparked by an email from a listener, Benjamin Foley. We connected over our shared approach to fear—leaning into it. Not running from it. Benjamin’s article, “Advice On Anxiety No One Tells You”, lit a fire under me, and now I’m passing that torch to you.

    You don’t need another checklist. You need a pattern interrupt.

    You need to sit with these questions like your life depends on it—because in a way, it does.

    Radical self awareness is the first step to radical self leadership. And the only person who can give you that… is you.


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