Reinvent Ideal: Dating & Life Advice for Men

Stop Feeling Powerless Around Women (Ep. 71)


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Do you believe that being a sugar daddy is a perfectly fine way to operate your life as a man? If so, you're about to get a kick in the butt today because you're approaching women from a position of weakness and thus will lose in the exchange. Sugar daddies, simps and the like treat the exchange like a negotiation, which this was never meant to be. 

Have you ever had some guy tell you how lucky you were to have a girlfriend? Have you ever been the guy that tells other men that? Ever seen another man with a girlfriend that was so beautiful, you think to yourself, “Wow, that’s so amazing. I wish I could have a woman like that. I could never have that.”

That’s precisely why you won’t. You don’t think you’re worthy so you won’t be.

But have you ever seen a man with a beautiful girlfriend, but he was a bad boyfriend to her and you felt you’d be so much better for her? Why would you be? You say it's because you'd give her everything she wants and move mountains for her. If you could get her.

But that's why you don't have her.

The Sexual Marketplace is no different. But the simp is not entirely aware of this. They may feel unworthy of the woman and thereby less valuable. But the things they think would make their position stronger are all wrong. They think flaunting money, flexing muscles and flattering with compliments is what will make them more valuable to the woman.

They couldn’t be more wrong.

What wins a woman over and causes her negotiate from a position of weakness is allurement. When a man can make a mundane moment memorable and magical, when he can turn an ordinary date into an experience she’ll never forget, or take the lead in a dance that sweeps her of her feet, he’s a man that she’d make concessions for.

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Reinvent Ideal: Dating & Life Advice for MenBy Cairo Copeland