By Cairo Copeland
The podcast currently has 76 episodes available.
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As a man, you know if you want to have sex with a woman within 3 seconds. A woman knows within 3 minutes if sex is even in the cards for her with you. But from there, there are many other considerations on her part that still need evaluation.
During the period of evaluation by her, many guys will resort to simping in an attempt to win her favor or get angry and upset because she gave them blue balls. The real problem here is that most males do not understand what a woman needs before getting into bed with you. Today's episode will clear it all up and show you what helps get her over the hurdles to have sex with you.
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ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube
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The language you use in your own thoughts matters because the cruelty you accept from your inner voice determines the cruelty you will accept from others. Saying "I got rejected," or "I need help coping with rejection" sends the wrong message. It says that something happens to you. It says you’re not in control.
Instead of “coping with rejection,” think of it as “handling the rejecting behaviors of others,” and “how to respond when other people are disinterested.” While you cannot manage other people’s behaviors and preferences, you can easily manage your own thoughts.
When you think or say, “I got rejected,” you are falsely putting the blame for the horrid event on yourself. Assigning that fault will hinder your ability to cope. But considering all the contextual variables, it’s a 1 out of 500 chance that it was because, “She didn’t like you.” It’s more likely something that’s not your fault, like her being in a relationship already.
Was it not better to find this out as early as possible? That’s one positive way to spin it. But too often, guys will look for the most negative interpretation of events. In behaviorism, this fatal mistake is called “Cognitive Distortions.”
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Far too often in the pickup/allurement/dating advice community, the focus is put entirely on the beginning phases. They teach you how to get her attention, phone number, date and sex. But one thing that this community has lacked in its teachings is how to keep a relationship with her, and more importantly, how to keep it one that you’re happy with. Her loyalty is equally as important.
You know everything now you need to do in order to get her out of your dreams and into your car. But how do you keep her there? There was so much hard work that went into getting to this point that many guys would like to think now is the time that they can just relax and enjoy what she can give you. Nothing could be further from the truth.
This is where a lot of guys get lazy, give up going to the gym, stop paying attention to how they’re dressed and groomed, and some even choose to slack off at work. They have become so comfortable and happy in their personal life because of this new-found relationship with the woman they desired that they forget how to exhibit the traits that attracted her in the first place.
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ReinventIdeal.com | Books | Youtube
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How do you find other high value men to make male friends that will push you further along your path to achieving success in life and reinvention? Find out here
Ideally, the friends you have will be ones that share the same activities, interests, experiences, feelings and thoughts as you. However, this is very unlikely. So in order to grow and accomplish anything in life, you’ll have to adapt. Don’t expect the universe to drop friends on you randomly. You’ve got to make these things happen for yourself. You may need to take on whole new activities, interests and experiences.
The following ways are what I believe are the best, most effective ways for you to meet other guys that will lift you up in life and help you along in your journey.
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Do you believe that being a sugar daddy is a perfectly fine way to operate your life as a man? If so, you're about to get a kick in the butt today because you're approaching women from a position of weakness and thus will lose in the exchange. Sugar daddies, simps and the like treat the exchange like a negotiation, which this was never meant to be.
Have you ever had some guy tell you how lucky you were to have a girlfriend? Have you ever been the guy that tells other men that? Ever seen another man with a girlfriend that was so beautiful, you think to yourself, “Wow, that’s so amazing. I wish I could have a woman like that. I could never have that.”
That’s precisely why you won’t. You don’t think you’re worthy so you won’t be.
But have you ever seen a man with a beautiful girlfriend, but he was a bad boyfriend to her and you felt you’d be so much better for her? Why would you be? You say it's because you'd give her everything she wants and move mountains for her. If you could get her.
But that's why you don't have her.
The Sexual Marketplace is no different. But the simp is not entirely aware of this. They may feel unworthy of the woman and thereby less valuable. But the things they think would make their position stronger are all wrong. They think flaunting money, flexing muscles and flattering with compliments is what will make them more valuable to the woman.
They couldn’t be more wrong.
What wins a woman over and causes her negotiate from a position of weakness is allurement. When a man can make a mundane moment memorable and magical, when he can turn an ordinary date into an experience she’ll never forget, or take the lead in a dance that sweeps her of her feet, he’s a man that she’d make concessions for.
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A form of deep, intrapersonal intelligence that is not talked about, despite the rise in interest for emotional intelligence, is what I would like to call sexual intelligence. If emotional intelligence is the ability to call into question and control bursting emotions screaming for attention, then sexual intelligence is the ability to do the same for your urges.
This is not to say that there is anything wrong with your attraction or sexual arousal. Letting them run wild can lead to more serious problems down the road.
Having the ability to cap them early on will also make your sexual experiences more pleasant, because during them, you can release yourself of the mental discipline it takes to restrict arousal. And finally, the greater the control you have over your sex-drive, the more irresistible you are to women.
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Dating is dangerous in today's world for men, especially the marriage-minded, but these red pill rules will keep you safe. Pursue romance and intimacy safely with an awareness of inter-sexual dynamics and the praxeological information referred to as the red pill. It is a collection of empirical data that will save your life and your sanity from the unforgiving brutal of today's mating market.
These red pill rules are said to be Iron-Clad not in the sense that they cannot ever be broken. But in the sense that they encompass all the principles of allure lead back to one of these. They are also to be used as fall back positions for those “When in doubt” moments of not knowing what to do next.
Going into the dating pool of today can be like a seal swimming with sharks if you're not careful. These principles will make sure you're not falling into the traps set by the blue pill world.
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No, I do not think the Flagrant 2 are racist. But this is the little game they play on people they don't like and agree with: take words and actions of theirs out of context, twist them into something else, and present a false conclusion. Today, they get a taste of their own medicine for their assault on the Red Pill consortium.
But what today's episode is really about is what Andrew and Akash illustrated with their white knight behavior. The great problem for men today is how easily they turn on each other to "defend ma lady's honor," or compete viciously, or even "out-alpha" each other. By the way, if you're using the word "alpha" to describe yourself or any other male, you really need to stop.
Today, we'll get into how to override this conditioned proclivity men have to turn on each other and a better way to approach competitive situations and the way the world pits you against other men.
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How can you be anything but black pill in today's world? Everyone hates us just for the way we're born. Women hold all the power. If she doesn't want me to approach her, she can say I'm harassing her and everyone will believe her. Even if we're married, she can end that anytime and be rewarded for ending that. If a woman can destroy my life from the very beginning at approach and even at the end with divorce where she can clean me out of all I've built, how can I be anything but black pill and nihilist?
Can we make ourselves instantly happy right away? Actually, yes.
Believe it or not, your life is already pretty awesome.
The majority of our thoughts are inherently negative largely because of how easy it is to think negatively. It’s easy to worry, to become anxious, to feel inadequate and to feel anger about the seeming injustices that cause them. These emotions are overpowering and can take hours to recover from, leaving very little time to feel contentment.
Because the natural, default state of the world is for it to suck, it’s only natural for our minds to expect the worse and go negative. To be optimistic and upbeat is quite unnatural, which is why such people who are leave a lasting impression on us.
The amount of bad things we remember from our past, the current strains and stress we feel, and the vast number of future worries stealing our concerns seem to outweigh any little joys we might pick up day to day.
In short, living is naturally hard and you have to work to put a smile on.
While I’m sure this is true for every living being on earth, being male, I’m able to pinpoint the obstacles to contentment that the world throws specifically at us. We’re constantly reminded that we’re inadequate with unrealistic body standards force-fed to us since childhood. Just look at the bodies of the action figures, superheroes and athletes we’re made to idolize.
The grateful man has the advantage because it can disarm the sting of any problem or challenge that life throws at him.
If there is any privilege at all in being male, it’s from these things.
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Why do women dish out their disapproval of you? Because they’re hypergamous? Cold-hearted? Conditioned to hate males? Does every woman on earth already have a boyfriend? And the ones that don’t are just coincidentally asexual as well?
Or does it have more to do with you? Is it because you’re unworthy? Unlovable? Unnecessary? Is the black pill correct?
These are only perceptions.
We’ve spent years trying to build up the self-esteem of an entire generation and have created a world in which the word “no” carries more power to wound adults more deeply than ever before.
Teenage males believe the solutions to their problem are: money, hot transportation, expensive dates, gifts, excitement from an expensive lifestyle, muscles, height, hot sex, perfect facial symmetry, popularity, acting like a jerk, and having a big dick. These are all assumptions but developed for a reason.
Lack any of those, and that's why he believes girls are not dating him. The generalizations are easy and convenient to believe. It gives the idea that if they get better at just that one thing they lack, gone will be the problem. And there are many profit-seekers out to provide what the young guys lack.
There are entire industries built on teenage boys and adult males continuing to have an unsolved reproductive problem. OnlyFans, Chaturbate, PornHub, etc. exist because of the simps and they have a financial interest into turning these males into full-blown incels. The poor fools fall for it hook, line and sinker and tragically at an early age.
The boys fail realize that when they are teenagers, they have underdeveloped brains. They’re just stupid. Up to this point, all the information they’ve received about successful relationships with females has come from movies, TV and the internet. In those outlets, all you see is just what you want to see. That's all they sell to you.
When you are rejected, you scramble for an answer as to why and are desperate to know. Your mind ruminates over it unnecessarily. Today's episode will tell you the only reason why you get rejected and what to do about.
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The podcast currently has 76 episodes available.