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A car is definitely a necessity in today's world. But being a necessity does not make it an asset, despite what car salesmen will say. In fact, a personal vehicle is one of the greatest liabilities you’ll ever own. It requires regular maintenance, it may occasionally come down with costly issues, it needs gasoline which does not have a stable nor predictable price, and it requires insurance to legally drive it, even though you may never use it.

Let’s not forget, the government is here to stick it to you again, forcing you to pay money for your driver’s license, registration, tags and plate.

For goodness sake, the thing loses 15% of its value the moment it’s driven off the lot.

The one thing that prevents most people from ever attaining wealth is the monthly car payment.

This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t buy a car. This doesn’t mean you should only buy it outright with cash. This doesn’t mean walk everywhere you need to go or ride a bike (but do it if you can). It means don’t continue buying new cars every five years. Today's episode will give you some very good ideas about cars.

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That skill is how to talk to girls.

Part of the reason I chose to become a dating coach is due to dissatisfaction with the ones currently available in my local market. Since they couldn’t provide the answers I was looking for, I sought those answers out on my own. And once I had them, I knew I could crush the competing coaches just for the fact that I had them.

Many dating coaches are just really bad at giving guys advice beyond the usual, “Engaging the conversation is half the battle.” Sure, it’s a vital part of the process, but as the saying says, there’s a whole other half to this equation. They’ll tell their clients, "Just talk to women and boom! They chase you." That only works for the coaches because they've been talking to women for a long time.

Many guys starting out are lost on what to even say to her.

What do you say when you finally get the balls to talk to random women you don’t know or have any prior connection with. And to make matters more difficult, these women will also be 9’s and 10’s on the beauty scale.

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Offense is taken. It cannot be given. Whenever you don’t like something, you say, “I take offense to that.” You never say, “You give me offense with that.”

Being offended is a choice. The pain you feel from a punch or injury is involuntary because physical damage is done to the body. But the pain from an insult results in no physical damage. An insult is comprised of words and words are nothing more than sequences of sound waves. They only have the meaning and the power you give them. 

Words only have the meaning and power you choose to give them. If they ever have the power to offend you, remember it was you that chose to give them that power. And that’s very telling about the kind of person you are if you are one that chooses to be offended by sequences of sound waves.

But many of the whiners and bitches that claim they are so deeply offended by things aren’t necessarily making their displeasure known because their feelings are legitimately hurt. They are complaining because they have a need to have their complaints heard. Some people actually get orgasmic pleasure from indignation.

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Today's episode goes back to what Reinvent Ideal is all about. Changing the standard for an ideal male life. This is done by abandoning and rejecting outdated, awful advice often given to guys that if followed can ruin their lives. Advice like go to college, climb the corporate ladder, get married, have kids, follow the blue pill, and even "game."

Instead, a man should pursue a different path, one where he reinvents himself. By reaching his full financial, social, genetic and intellectual potential. That is the most moral calling any human can chase, especially a man. These are the things a man should chase instead of women. And then once he’s reached these peak potentials, he can have his choice of all the women available.

Even if you don’t get the woman of your dreams at the end of this, you get much more out of this life for you. You’re not doing this for women. You’re doing it for you. You chase excellence instead of women not to one day have one. You do it to have the new ideal life for a male. One that’s happy whether he has a woman or not. And we begin by deprogramming all the blue pill lies you’ve fed.

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More like myths, but myths are really just a nice way of saying lies. The three that I'm going to tear apart on today's program are:

1. The sole mate myth

2. The quality woman myth

3. The lonely, miserable, unmarried, old man myth

These three lies are spread throughout popular wisdom and pop culture to convince you that your sole purpose in this world is to serve women and be a great asset to their existence. Even if that comes at the expense of your happiness, so be it, says the world. 

We're going to change this type of thinking and transform your mind into having more beneficial thoughts for you today.

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A woman can be a great addition to your life, but locking in a financial attachment to her can totally ruin it. As guys, we will still want women and to have them in our lives, but do we have to make ourselves economically dependent on each other? Can we possibly protect ourselves if so? 

Marriage, cohabitation, even committed relationships are generally not beneficial to the reinvented ideal life for men. But for those that just can't live without commitment to a woman, today's episode has a quiz for you and her to do that will prevent financial ruin in case the relationship goes south.

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Do you get really angry at thots on Twitch, OnlyFans, Instagram, or whatever when they grift and exploit guys with their sexuality? The sexual thirst racketeering gets pretty annoying. But do not be angry at these thots. That will only make them double down.

Who should you really be angry at? Who do you think you have a chance of reaching and making a difference with? Not the thot, but the simps that make her popular and give her that easy life. 

You must shame all your simp friends by telling them something like, "Hey, bro. The way you're slobbering all over this chick that would turn her nose up at you? It's not a good look on you. A lot of people would laugh at you and make fun of you behind your back if they saw this." 

That's not really shaming, more like helping that guy. Simping is a plague upon the world and needs to be shamed out of existence. Today's program is all about this.

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Today's episode is a response to a listener's email asking why women have sex:

I don't understand why women act like sex is such a big deal or an enormous favor they do for us guys. Like, WTF? Don't they enjoy it too? Doesn't it feel good on their end? Especially for the fact that they hardly have to do any of the work. What is their problem?

I understand that there's a greater reproductive burden to pay, but last I heard birth control and condoms were invented. Could you talk about how to overcome this obstacle of women's apparent resistance to having it and what ultimately motivates them to have sex when they do?

Women need a reason to have sex whereas men just need a place. It’s important to understand the female mind when it comes to what motivates them to have sex. What need is a woman looking to have fulfilled by having sex. A man that can recognize that and act accordingly to it needs very little knowledge of tactics on how to get it.

We’re not seeking to trick women into having sex. We’re only seeking to give them the sex they’ve already decided they want to have.

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Answering a listener's email tonight about why you never want a woman to perceive you as subservient. This is a perception she may develop if you are too quick to help her or attempt to make her life easier at your expense. We also call this simp behavior.

Suppose you are someone that is very beneficial for her to have in her network. Suppose she is even a bit interested in you before the two of you get to know each other. Then she finds out that you could help her with something that she really wants or needs. At that moment, you become disqualified from ever being a sex partner.

The rational explanation behind that is that if you really are that useful, she doesn’t want to fuck things up by introducing sex into the arrangement. But as you know, women are more emotional and they understand that sex can make things unpredictable and jeopardize the relationship. It adds new risks that otherwise would exist.

Even if you’re a very attractive guy, you must recognize this point. Women have 1/18 the amount of sex hormones you have, so it doesn’t always take top priority for them when it comes to getting needs met. But if you’re one of those guys that they call “meal tickets” (a guy that a woman dates just to get free meals from), you’re serving a more useful purpose: feeding her. She doesn’t always need sex but she always needs to eat.

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It is better to endure a failure from a rejection than to be tied to a success you regret. Avoiding rejection causes more long-term problems than just enduring through it.

Because how well you handle failure determines how often you get to handle success. Your attempts to shield yourself from failure are also shielding you from success.

Males hinder their own success by creating long-term problems that otherwise wouldn’t have hit them. We are the masters of complicating our lives and justifying why we do it. Some ways in which they complicate and create worse problems for themselves is by getting into long-distance relationships, orbiting, simping, dating single mothers, and developing an unbreakable addiction to porn.

The existence of these problems has allowed me to make my living as a writer and a coach. And what I’ve found common among all these problems is that at the root of them is a fear of rejection and desire to shield one’s self from it. The shields from rejection that males develop for themselves condition them to accept not winning. They are in fact an admission of early defeat.

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