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If dating coaches talked about them, you probably wouldn't ever hire  one. Is it possible that you're wasting your time and money on pursuits  that will not make you happy in the end like you think they will? Is it  possible you're wasting your life on goals that the world says your  supposed to have but you're not sure you even want?

I am out to make money, but my clients are often big spenders and I charge a high-end price, so I don't think I'm losing much business revealing all this here.

Dating coaches are out to make money so it's not in their financial  interest to tell you these things. But this episode will tell you what they  won't to save you real money.

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New year, but for resolutions, instead of looking at the future, look at the past.

We're going to look at the past of one fellow in particular. Jack Murphy, a guy that prides himself on being the alpha male mentor. Guys, when you hear these voices in the male space calling themselves "Alpha males", run. Firstly, the whole concept is bro-science bullshit. Second, if you have to label yourself as a top-tier guy, you're probably not. 

Not interested in shitting on Jack Murphy, although I personally don't care for him. These guys that promote themselves as super-masculine and have these big beards are an embarrassment to all males. Please, shave off your stupid beards. Today is about what can we learn from his mistakes. A smart man learns from his own mistakes. A wise man learns from the mistakes of others.

Just own your past. Everyone has something unflattering and embarrassing in their past. Look at me. For a period of time in my life, I was a stripper. I'm sure there's videos out there of my time as a stripper because I remember seeing phones locked on to me. Am I going to try to hide it? Hell no.

The theme of today, if anything, is you need to give a lot less of a shit about most things. Especially your past. Own your shit. 

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We all get soft rejections, but what about the explicitly harsh rejections? What about when she tells you to, “Fuck off because you’re the ugliest person in the world with the smallest dick alive!” in front of a large crowd?

As painful as that one sounds, what would you think if you were told she was the one feeling the most pain?

Acting this cold and bitchy is not normal behavior for a woman because it is confrontational which is not a feminine trait. There are only three possible explanations for why she would deviate from the vernacular of female behavior. We discuss them today.

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A male friend that sticks by your side is far more valuable to you as a  man than even the hottest, most sexual, submissive wife. Here's what  they can do for you.

This goes especially for the guys that are in the most pain and have the greatest need to get it off their chests. These guys often lack the opportunities to do just that. Neither were they ever taught the skills of expressing these intense emotions and negative feelings in a constructive way.

Males often feel safer expressing vulnerable thoughts and feelings with their woman. It seems perfectly reasonable to expect the woman who loves you to offer a sympathetic ear and provide emotional support that seems natural for women to give.

Today's episode will show you why it is more beneficial for you to seek empathy and advice from your male friends instead of your woman.

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A dating life hack that will dramatically improve your happiness and satisfaction as a male is spinning plates, or date non-exclusively. Most guys do not do this because it is contrary to our nature and goes against everything the media tells us.

Many guys will have initial hesitation to doing this, which of course shows a healthy thoughtfulness and consideration for others. There are two reasons that most guys do not build a rotation: the disgusting aftertaste of feeling like a player and the over-estimation of maintaining such a circle. Both these objections need to be dismantled.

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Indirect allure is so appealing to guys because it protects their egos. If the woman rejects you while you’re trying to chat her up about dogs, it's not that she doesn’t want you, it's because she doesn't want to talk about dogs. What then is an easy way to find out if she likes you?

Even if it works well enough to get you a phone number out of the interaction, it only sets you up for being her male girlfriend or an orbiting simp. Attempting to talk to women without the chance of being judged is just not possible. You need to just embrace the judgment and go direct.

You have a short window of time to find out if she likes you before the approach becomes awkward or annoying to her. Today's episode focuses on finding out fast

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Even if you know how to converse and aren’t afraid of running out of things to say, there’s still one missing element of talking to 9’s and 10’s. If you only know how to do that, you may make a lot of friends, but it won’t get you on dates. To do that, you must learn how to flirt. Further, you must learn how to flirt without being creepy.

Flirting is how you arouse her interest and making her start imagining both of you together. This is definitely what you want her thinking about, but also in a fun and suggestive way.

Flirting comes natural to women because they can get away with anything. If a woman came up to you and said, “I’d love to put lipstick on your dipstick,” you wouldn’t object as long as she was hot. It doesn't come so easily for guys and there’s no way we’d ever get away with something like that.

Especially with the #MeToo era. A lot of guys are afraid to flirt with women because they don’t want to look creepy and get accused of harassment. But the reason they do is precisely because the way they flirt is creepy. I'd bet that many of those harassment claims arose because the guy was trying to flirt but was too clumsy with it and overly direct. The proper way is to be subtle. You want to tease and excite her, not shock her.

Today's episode will give you a primer on flirting without appearing to be a thirsty creep.

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Many times, all a guy needs to do to get laid is to not fuck it up. But many guys will shoot themselves right in foot on the road to wrinkled bedsheets. They were so close but made one little mistake. I’ve compiled a list of the most common, stupid mistakes that guys easily fall into doing.

Bear in mind that these mistakes are only actions to avoid while you are pursuing sex with her. You can get away with doing some of these things after you’ve had sex with her twice. I still would suggest keeping it to a minimum after that point. But don’t think these are absolutely, don’t-even-think-about, “no-no’s”.

On dates, a guy looks for things he likes about the woman he’s with while the woman looks for things that she doesn't like. She actively searches for disqualifiers because of her hypergamous nature and the fact that she knows she has so many options available to her with the current simp pandemic.

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Did you know that there are myths that most guys believe and believing those myths is preventing them from getting laid? That's one of the many lies that women want you to believe. Caitlin V. made a video to document them all. Cairo made this podcast to debunk it all.

This just goes to show that you can't take advice from female dating coaches or anyone who hasn't dated a woman. A coach can only lead you as far as they've gone and if they haven't gotten the results with women you want, they can't help you get them. But also, the things that women want you to believe about them are so false and could lead you to get hurt bad.

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Short answer: no. But there is a tremendous amount of joy you gain from not getting married. Further, there's a greater cost to getting married beyond wedding.

Society today puts tremendous pressure on guys to get married or make them feel as though they are not in good standing if they do not. You may have noticed this that whenever you're with a woman, you're treated differently. However those benefits are dwarfed by the drawbacks. Today's episode explains how guys will not become the miserable, lonely, old man archetype if they chose to remain single or a player forever.

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