In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis teach biblical communication principles for resolving conflict without breaking connection. Learn the rules that protect your marriage and family from cycles of disconnection — and why winning arguments never builds intimacy.

You’ll Learn:

• The 24-hour rule for healthy reconnection
• How “I-statements” create safety and honor
• Why defensiveness kills connection and how to stop it
• How to break hurtful speech habits (like “never” and “always”)
• How prayer and perspective soften your heart after conflict
• Why connection is a covenant — not a feeling

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00:00 – Intro: The Power of Pausing

00:30 – 24-hour Rule for Reconnection

01:00 – How to Start a Repair Conversation

01:45 – Rules of Engagement: No Yelling or Belittling

02:00 – Using “I-Statements” Instead of Accusationsjacquie-greg (9)

03:00 – How Defensiveness Blocks Connection

04:15 – Why Perspective Matters Before You Talk

05:00 – Letting Your Spouse Speak First

06:00 – Handling Strong-Willed Kids in Conflict

07:15 – Teaching Children Boundaries & Respectful Speech

08:30 – How Prayer Transforms Your Heart

09:30 – Reconnection as a Covenant Choice

10:45 – Final Encouragement: Fight for Peace, Not to Win