Ever feel like you’re constantly drained from trying to keep everyone happy? Like you’re giving 100% to people who wouldn’t even give you 10%? It’s time to let that go. This episode is all about reclaiming your energy, confidence, and self-respect—because people-pleasing isn’t the flex you think it is.

We’re breaking down:

✅ Why caring too much about others’ opinions will ruin your happiness

✅ How to stop being a people pleaser and actually stand up for yourself

✅ The real difference between kindness and being a pushover

✅ The selfish habits we secretly love (yes, sometimes putting you first is the best move)

✅ And of course, our unfiltered takes, bad habits, and messy stories

💬 Inside This Episode:

The final straw that made us say “I’m done being disrespected”

The toxic side of people-pleasing that no one talks about

The importance of boundaries (because being a doormat is not self-care)

The wildest bad habits we need to break—but probably won’t

Plus, a K-Drama recommendation that you need in your life!

If you’re tired of wasting your energy on people who don’t deserve it, this episode is for you. Lock in and let’s talk about it.

00:00 Introduction: Embracing Self-Preservation

00:32 Welcome and Episode Kickoff

00:49 Personal Growth and People-Pleasing

02:03 Standing Up for Yourself

02:45 The Art of Not Giving a F*ck

05:45 Workplace Dynamics and Self-Respect

13:45 Journaling and Self-Reflection

18:59 Work Relationships and Boundaries

24:26 Reflections and Real Talk

24:58 Developing a Carefree Attitude

25:16 Bad Habits and Self-Reflection

26:08 The Honey Bun Chronicles

31:40 Unfiltered Conversations

39:56 Friendship Dynamics

42:03 K-Drama Recommendations

45:55 Wrapping Up and Call to Action

Like what you see?

👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to be among the first to catch our weekly episodes! Share your thoughts and stories—we’d love to hear from you.

✨ Join the Vibe Tribe! ✨

Connect with us on X, Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok 🌐 or visit our website for the latest updates. Got stories, ideas, or suggestions? 💡📧 Send them to [email protected]—we can’t wait to hear from you! ❤️

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@agirlsperspectivepodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agppodcast1?igsh=eHl4Zjlya2Rjc3Jj&utm_source=qr

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/aJuSdraimL21Uezx/?mibextid=LQQJ4d

Website: https://shows.acast.com/a-girls-perspective-podcast

About A Girl’s Perspective Podcast

Join hosts Jocelyn and Jade for a weekly dose of relatable rants, real talk, and humor! From navigating adulting and friendships to spilling secrets and sharing hot takes, we’re here to keep it real.

🎙 New episodes every Wednesday!

Whether you’re into Kdramas, Kpop, or just need some honest commentary about life, friendships, and everything in between, this is the community for you.

Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are solely our own, based on our personal experiences and limited knowledge. They are not intended to be taken as fact or gospel. Additionally, they do not reflect the beliefs or opinions of our friends, family, employers, or any affiliated organizations.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.