This week, we’re unpacking a breakup story that raises an uncomfortable question: are there moments you just can’t come back from in a relationship?

We react to a Reddit post that sparked debate about attraction, embarrassment, and honesty, then get into why people claim they want relationships but struggle with accountability, communication, and emotional discomfort.

If you’ve ever wondered whether people actually want connection or just consistent attention or felt confused by how quickly someone’s feelings can change, this episode puts words to that frustration.

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Breakups don’t always end cleanly. Sometimes they end with hurt feelings, crossed lines, and decisions people swear they don’t regret.

In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade react to stories about the pettiest things people have done after a breakup and talk through why emotions make people move the way they do. They also touch on coworker trust, oversharing at work, and what happens when someone you confided in repeats your business.

If you’ve ever wondered whether something went too far after a breakup, or if you should trust that coworker who feels a little too comfortable, this episode will hit.

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Saying you don’t want to be someone’s accountability partner can shift a friendship instantly. This conversation moves from rethinking personal change to navigating friendships that expect more consistency than you can realistically give.

We break down a real situation where opting out caused tension, then widen the lens to talk about uneven effort, routines that no longer fit, and why pulling back often feels worse than staying quiet. If you’ve felt pressure to keep showing up in ways you already know you can’t sustain, this episode will feel familiar.

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This week, we’re talking about family dynamics, emotional tension, and how gratitude looks different as adults.

We get into uncomfortable family moments, how unresolved issues spill into friendships, and why choosing peace sometimes means stepping back instead of showing up.

If the holidays bring more pressure than comfort, or if family relationships leave you feeling emotionally drained, this episode will feel like sitting with friends who actually understand where you are.

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Work will drain the version of you it met if you let it. Burnout hits different when you’re the one holding everything together — the “strong one,” the dependable coworker, the one who cares more than the people in charge.

In this episode, we’re talking about what burnout actually feels like, why “being a team player” is often just code for “we’ll overwork you,” and how hard it is to set boundaries in a culture that treats your life like it’s optional.

If you’ve ever been exhausted, resentful, or low-key disgusted at how much of yourself you’ve given to a job… yeah. This one’s for you.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Dilemma

00:29 The Happy Hour Conflict

01:33 Personal Boundaries and Work

03:55 Alternative Social Activities

05:43 Workplace Relationships and Friendships

07:58 Balancing Work and Personal Life

30:45 The Concept of Quiet Quitting

34:36 Question of the Week: Last Meal on Death Row

38:59 Portillo's Cravings and Dipping Debates

40:12 Death Row Meals: Wagyu and Weird Choices

47:14 Coke vs. Pepsi: The Ultimate Debate

56:49 Waffle House and Late-Night Breakfast Adventures

59:20 Setting Boundaries at Work

01:07:29 Keeping Coworkers at a Distance

01:12:30 Wrapping Up: Engage with Us!

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If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship longer than you should have, kept sleeping with someone you were trying to leave, or dragged out a breakup because comfort felt easier than change… this episode will feel painfully familiar.

We talk about the messy in-between stage — when you know you're done emotionally, but your habits, fears, routine, or living situation keep you stuck. Our listeners shared their own stories of staying too long, choosing comfort over clarity, and finally walking away.

We also get into friendship shifts when someone disappears into a new relationship, girl code confusion, dating apps with unrealistic expectations, and whether emotional availability is the real modern dating problem.

This episode is for anyone navigating adult relationships, setting boundaries, facing hard truths, or trying to understand themselves better in love and friendship.

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Hookup Horror Stories, Holiday Boundaries, and Pop-up Visits: Navigating Modern Friendships

In this lively episode, Jocelyn and Jade delve into the hilarious and sometimes cringe-worthy world of 'hookup horror stories,' sharing listener submissions that will leave you wide-eyed. The duo also tackles the complex emotions tied to holiday gatherings, discussing the pressure and obligation that often come with family traditions and offering practical advice on how to maintain personal boundaries. To round it off, the hosts dive into the nostalgia and modern realities of spontaneous friend visits, sharing their take on whether popping up unannounced is a friendship goal or a social faux pas. Don't miss this entertaining and thought-provoking episode!

00:00 Introduction and Question of the Week

00:12 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 1

04:37 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 2

08:00 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 3

10:48 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 4

14:15 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 5

16:35 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 6

18:56 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 7

26:32 Friendship Files: Holiday Gift Giving

35:42 Inflatable Sumo Wrestlers and Christmas Gifts

36:47 The Dutch Oven Dilemma

37:14 Are We Wrong? Skipping Christmas

41:51 Mental Health and Holiday Stress

50:24 Main Character Moment: Finding Peace

01:04:24 Unannounced Visits and Friendship Dynamics

01:09:20 Weekly Poll and Closing Remarks

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In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade dive into the week's question: what are subtle signs someone is cheating? They discuss five signs based on listener responses and share personal anecdotes about infidelity, relationship dynamics, and social media behavior. The conversation touches on social behaviors, like making an effort in friendships and the importance of communication. The episode is wrapped up with gratitude for a year of podcasting together, and Jocelyn surprises Jade with a thoughtful gift in appreciation of her commitment.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Question of the Week

00:45 Top 5 Subtle Signs of Cheating

00:48 Sign 1: The Passenger Seat Clue

04:56 Sign 2: Picking Fights and Finding Faults

07:05 Sign 3: Social Media Secrecy

09:13 Sign 4: Talking About a Colleague Too Much

12:02 Sign 5: Everything Seems Perfect

18:15 Friendship Files: Planning and Dependability

26:02 Was I Wrong for Skipping Friendsgiving?

34:57 Discussing Messiness and Entertainment

35:24 Debating Love and Attendance

37:03 Balancing Time in Relationships

39:03 Pressure to Show Up in Relationships

46:25 Random Thoughts: Do Zombies Poop?

53:52 Driving Etiquette and Rants

58:26 Thanksgiving Surprise and Reflections

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Unforgettable Dreams, Stripper Mishaps, and Boundaries

In this episode, hosts Jocelyn and Jade share a hilarious and unforgettable bachelorette trip to Nashville where ATM issues and unexpected costs left them in awkward situations. They also dive into a discussion about memorable dreams from Reddit, ranging from bizarre to heartwarming. The conversation transitions into the complexities of setting boundaries in friendships, touching on personal experiences and perspectives. Finally, they tease upcoming merchandise and possible giveaways for their listeners. Tune in for laughs and thought-provoking insights!

Chapters

00:00 ATM Troubles at the Strip Club

01:06 Question of the Week: Unforgettable Dreams

01:36 Analyzing Disturbing Dreams

06:01 Dreams of the Past and Past Lives

11:43 Ranting About Parachute Pants

15:53 Friendship Files: Privacy Boundaries

25:18 Are We Wrong? Venting About Trip Costs

36:05 Kicking Out the Broke Friend

36:19 ATM Troubles at the Male Revue

37:34 Strippers and No Cash

39:47 Reflecting on Broke Moments

43:58 Setting Boundaries in Relationships

50:32 Travel Stories and Pet Peeves

54:10 Hugging Boundaries and Personal Space

01:09:09 Future Plans and Podcast Updates

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Navigating Friendships and Workplace Dynamics

In this episode, hosts Jocelyn and Jade discuss the dynamics of friendships, focusing on how people can outgrow each other and the feelings that arise from being excluded from significant events. Jocelyn shares her personal experiences of dealing with workplace bullying, mismanagement, and the importance of advocating for oneself. They also tackle the issue of employees being penalized for frequently calling in sick, especially when it involves family matters, and the problematic nature of restrictive PTO policies. The discussion underscores the importance of knowing one's worth and exploring better opportunities if current conditions are detrimental.

In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade delve into the complexities of outgrowing friends, navigating workplace dynamics, and confronting leadership issues. They recount personal stories and discuss audience-submitted questions regarding strange behaviors, friend inclusivity, and the toxic work environment. Through candid conversation, they offer insights into valuing oneself and finding better opportunities both socially and professionally.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Friendships and Personal Growth

01:22 Question of the Week: Strangest Things Caught Doing

03:21 Embarrassing Moments and Family Traditions

04:16 More Strange and Funny Stories

13:59 Friendship Dynamics and Expiration Dates

33:08 Discussing the Show 'All of Us Are Dead'

34:00 Horror Movie Logic and Frustrations

35:50 Kelly Rowland in Horror Movies

36:46 Am I Wrong? Engagement Dinner Dilemma

39:29 Friendship and Exclusion

52:09 Graduation and Friendship Expectations

57:10 Healthy Eating and Office Etiquette

01:06:21 The Office Food Dilemma

01:09:12 Workplace Bullying: It's Not Just for Kids

01:29:06 The PTO Battle: Prepare the Others

01:38:09 Navigating Toxic Work Environments

01:46:55 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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