It's episode #250!!! And to celebrate, the StopLosingWomen.com website has been remodeled... and It. Looks. AMAZING!! And so, on today's show, we're talking about the new look of the site, as well as some of the NEW programs we're offering to better serve all the guys out there looking to improve results in their dating lives, including: Easier page navagation The brand new podcast player 1-on-1 coaching programs A brand new, FREE special report, "7 Steps to Get Her to Say YES to the First Date!" ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you'd like discussed? Send Harry a message HERE!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about two issues: The first issue is the senseless violence that recently occurred in Charleston, South Carolina, where a 21-year old young man killed 9 people at a church. This isn't a political show, but I wanted to do a mini-commentary about the tragedy, as well as point out how the hatred this man had for a group of people correlates with how many men with a negative dating history act towards women, and why it's important to monitor those feelings before they get out of hand... After that, we talk about how to begin trusting your own instincts when it comes to the world of dating. Specifically, we talk about: The purest example of how a man should treat women in order to attract them How men are BORN with natural attracting instincts, and how they lose them The key to being able to trust your own instincts again Why men have a hard time feeling comfortable doing the things they should be naturally doing to get women ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you'd like discussed? Send Harry a message HERE!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where we answer a listener's question! Today, we respond to a guy who's been out with a girl at least 12 times since he first met her 3 weeks ago. Now, he feels as though she's sending mixed signals and wants to know if he should back off from seeing her a bit so that she'll come to him! Specifically, we talk about: The importance of treating dating like a marathon, not a sprint How often you should see a girl per week when you first start dating her Why women can actually become LESS interested in you the more they see you Whether or not it's okay for her to have up an online account - and how you can use this knowledge to get her to commit to you faster LESS IS MORE: How to successfully transistion into seeing her less so that your time with her is more effective ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you'd like discussed? Send Harry a message HERE!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we give examples of 5 different actions you need to reserve for when you're in a relationship - and how witholding said things from the woman you're in the dating phase with can result in her wanting to have "The Relationship Talk" with you sooner! Specifically, we go over: The reason most guys are ready to give a woman access to their whole world after 1 or 2 dates How to treat each dating life phase like a "membership website" Why women are actually NOT insulted when you don't initially give them access to certain parts of your life Examples of 5 things you can hold off on giving to her until she becomes the girlfriend - and why she'll feel even MORE rewarded in the long run ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you'd like discussed? Send Harry a message HERE!

In today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the 3 reasons why agreeing to help out a woman you just met will usually result in her NOT dating you! Specifically, we go over: Why unearned actions from you do not equate to love feelings for you from her What a woman is REALLY thinking when you agree to help her out - and it's NOT a good thing! The importance of not becoming a "valuable commodity" to her too early in the getting-to-know-you process The things you need to focus on getting better at to attract her in the beginning - it's not about ACTIONS, it's about making her FEEL certain things ...and much more!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It's ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener's dating questions! Today, we answer a question from a guy who made some "dating errors" on a previous date that have him wondering if he should cancel the next one he's scheduled with her! Specifically, we go over: Whether or not you should ever cancel a date & why Why you need to avoid talking about your/her "issues" early in the dating process How your insecurities can ruin the relationship – even if she's not feeling any What you need to do when setting up a date so that she won't cancel …and much more!

In today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss how a girl either likes your or doesn't, and why her having both feelings for you is impossible! Specifically, we talk about: The importance of understanding the word "BUT," and why it correlates with her lack of interest Examples of ways women verbalize a "dual reality" Examples of ways women actionize a "dual reality" The golden way of knowing which reality is the REAL one that she feels for you And much more!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It's ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener's dating questions! Today, we answer a question from a listener who wants to know if you can ever get to a point in a relationship with a woman where you can be vulnerable without chasing her off! Specifically, we go over: Why you do NOT want to talk about vulnerabilities too much, ESPECIALLY in the beginning of the dating relationship How guys misinterpret what they're supposed to be "open" about with their girlfriends/wives How & why she views you in a certain way when you talk about the things that worry you in the relationship The truth about how your platonic girl friends feel when you tell them about your problems Who it's okay to go to when you need to talk about insecurities, worries, and/or issues in your relationship …and much more!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It's ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener's dating questions! Today, we answer a 2nd message from a guy who has been dating a woman for 5 years and is engaged to her… but now isn't so sure he wants to marry her! Specifically, we go over: The various reasons why it's a BAD idea to marry someone for the WRONG reasons Why it's not fair to the person you're going to marry to stay with them if you're really not interested in them The reason why men rush into relationships as they get older The importance of waiting for the RIGHT girl to come along – even if it means holding out a bit longer How to tell if you should marry the girl you're with… or let her go …and much more!

It's the Mother's Day show!!! On today's podcast, we're talking about a topic that hasn't been approached on this show before, and that's how your love life is affected by the way you treated your mother growing up! As the first woman ever to appear in your life, the way in which you were taught to interact with her growing up helped to mold your viewpoint about women in general: how they deserve to be handled, talked to, etc. For those of you who find you are unable to hang on to women for a long time, or are constantly being told that you don't treat women the right way, many of these issues could be the result of you having YEARS of practice treating the first women in your life (i.e. your Mom, Grandma, aunts, female cousins) in negative ways. If you got away with things as a kid like talking back to your Mom, throwing tantrums, or going even more extreme by hitting her or calling her ugly names, these actions, practiced over many years and ingrained into your behavior, could be things you're bringing into your relationships that are causing you to FAIL. And so, we talk about all that, as well as what you can start doing TODAY to rectify the situation, remove those negative behaviors, and begin getting into the practice of treating women in ways that will have them wanting to stick around for the long haul – and it all starts with re-programming the way you interact with your Mom!