People-pleasing is a harmful habit in a person's life because the act takes your focus off what you can control and places your focus on what you cannot and shouldn't control, which is someone else's happiness and wellbeing. People-pleasing doesn't work because we won't correctly predict the mood someone else would be in all the time, as these kinds of things are not within our control.

Hence, if we base our happiness or unhappiness on someone's hands, we are highly vulnerable.

Today I'm going to share something called the people-pleasing Quadrant to help you understand more about what people-pleasing is all about and what we can do when we see our people-pleasing tendencies popping up. This people-pleasing Quadrant consists of 4 different situations you may find yourself in. Quadrant means four which means there are four different situations where you can develop strategies to deal with your people-pleasing tendencies.

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