The Winning Edge Coach Podcast

Stop Saying “I Think” — Speak with Confidence and Influence Instantly


Listen Later

Send us Fan Mail

What if two simple words are quietly undermining your confidence, authority, and influence every time you speak?

In this episode of The Winning Edge Coach Podcast, Kev Oakley breaks down one of the most overlooked communication habits that weakens your presence: saying “I think". While it may sound polite, this subtle phrase can dilute your message, signal uncertainty, and make your ideas easier to dismiss—whether you're in a meeting, coaching a client, or leading a team.

Inspired by insights from Lorraine K. Lee (CNBC Make It), this episode introduces a powerful language shift that can instantly upgrade how you’re perceived: replacing “I think” with “I recommend".

You’ll learn:

Why minimising language reduces authority and confidence

How small wording changes impact how others perceive your expertise

Real-world examples for work, leadership, coaching, and everyday conversations

How to sound confident without coming across as arrogant

Practical strategies to break weak language habits and communicate with clarity

This is a simple but powerful communication upgrade that can transform how you show up in conversations—and how seriously people take you.

If you're a coach, leader, athlete, or high performer looking to sharpen your communication and elevate your influence, this episode gives you a practical edge you can apply immediately.

Subscribe for weekly insights on mindset, performance, leadership, and communication strategies designed to help you perform at your best when it matters most

Support the show

☕ Enjoying the show? 

Buy me a coffee. The Winning Edge Coach Podcast is independently produced, and every episode takes real time and real cost to research, record, and put out into the world. If this episode gave you something useful, you can help keep the show running – ad-light and consistent – by buying me a coffee. 

It only takes a minute, and every single coffee goes straight back into making this show better. 

Thank you for listening and for backing the show.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

The Winning Edge Coach PodcastBy Kevin Oakley