Your attitude is everything. You believe it only affects you inside your mind & not even by much, but you're wrong. Your attitude, how you speak to yourself & out into the world creates the life you live in. There is a correlation between being negative & getting negative. Same with being positive. Let me give you some quick tips to turn that attitude around today.

Show Notes:
We think that our attitude only affects us, when it affects so many other things in our lives.

Tony Robbins talks about how the words we say create life, create our reality & it’s so true.

If you don’t believe me, take a moment to at least consider it.

Ask yourself if you’ve been saying negative things to yourself or out loud for others to hear (or not) & answer whether you have been mostly seeing negative things in your life. And think about the last time you were being more positive or even just realistic. Didn’t it seem like your circumstances were more manageable or even better? 

Your attitude, positive or negative, will determine so many things in your life that you may not have considered. The attitude you have at the beginning of something you know will be grueling & a lot of work will determine the outcome. It might all still come together in the end, but it could have been A LOT better if there wasn’t so much negativity swirling around. 

Your attitude is also one of the few things you ALWAYS have control over in your life. You get to decide how you feel, how you act, and how you handle something tough. It’s all you. And blaming someone else for how you feel will not make the pain go away. Shifting blame makes it seem like it’s no longer your responsibility, but that’s only a fallacy. 

The things you say create your reality. And I don’t want you to think I’m suggesting you subscribe to toxic positivity, which is fake positivity. No, I want you to be fully aware of what you are saying & thinking as much as possible & check yourself when it’s necessary so you don’t live a life full of negativity & letdown.

Please realize that it serves you best when you lean into the positive more than the negative. It isn’t going to make the whole problem, struggle, and experience go away, but it’s going to make it easier for you to get through. It’s not a magic formula, but it is what will make the whole experience better. Maya Angelou said, “If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.”

Here are 4 ways you can quickly shift your attitude from negative to something more positive:

1. Recognize Your Negative Feelings & Thoughts 
2. See Your Struggles As Accepted Challenges 
3. Change Your Focus 
4. Ask Yourself, “Will this attitude actually make anything better?”

Thank you again for listening & I hope this episode was helpful.

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