Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools

Stop Telling your Spouse What to Do


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Stop Telling Your Spouse What To Do: Strengthen Your Marriage with Respect
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée discusses the negative impact of telling your spouse what to do and offers three alternative strategies to foster respect and partnership in marriage. By making requests with a time element, providing suggestions instead of commands, and waiting for your spouse to ask for advice, you can enhance your relationship dynamics. Coach Kelly emphasizes the importance of treating your spouse as an equal and shares faith-based tips from God's word. He also invites viewers to receive a free digital copy of his book, Turn It Up, and to engage with the content for further discussion and support.

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00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Commanding Your Spouse
01:04 Why Telling Your Spouse What to Do is Harmful
02:08 Treating Your Spouse with Respect
02:17 Three Alternatives to Commanding Your Spouse
02:23 Making Requests with a Time Element
04:23 Giving Suggestions Instead of Commands
05:30 Waiting for Your Spouse to Ask for Advice
06:08 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and ToolsBy by Kelly DuPée