In this episode of "Stop the Sacrifice," we dive into the profound consequences of unhealthy sacrificing across various aspects of our lives. As always, we start with a word of prayer, grounding our discussion in faith and God's guidance. Host, Certified Life Coach Narcissa Helen Nelson, 'The Overcomer,' shares personal stories and insights to illustrate the far-reaching impacts of neglecting our well-being in favor of others. Together, we explore how chronic stress, anxiety, and a lack of boundaries can derail us from living a balanced, fulfilling life aligned with God's purpose.

Key Discussion Points

1. Physical Health

   • Chronic Stress: How continuous self-sacrifice can weaken the immune system.

   • Exhaustion: The severe health issues that arise from physical burnout.

2. Mental and Emotional Health

   • Anxiety and Depression: The emotional toll of undervaluing oneself.

   • Resentment: How excessive sacrifices can damage relationships and well-being.

3. Personal Relationships

   • Imbalance: The unhealthy dynamics of one-sided relationships.

   • Lack of Boundaries: The dangers of having your kindness exploited.

4. Spiritual Health

   • Drifting from God's Plan: The distraction of unhealthy sacrifices from spiritual growth.

   • Misunderstanding God's Intent: Clarifying the true meaning of sacrificial love as modeled by Jesus.

Biblical References

• Philippians 4:6-7: A reminder to be prayerful in all things and to let God's peace guard our hearts and minds.

• Philippians 4:5: Encouragement to focus on Jesus Christ's return and judgment as a motivation to align our actions with His teachings.

Personal Testimonies

Certified Life Coach Narcissa Nelson shares heartfelt stories from her own life, illustrating the impact of unhealthy sacrifices:

• Balancing motherhood, work, and supporting a codependent parent.

• Overcoming the physical and emotional toll of chronic self-neglect.

• Learning to establish boundaries and trust in God's provision.

Reflection and Action Steps

• Recognize: Identify areas in your life where unhealthy sacrifices are prevalent.

• Reevaluate: Consider the balance between helping others and taking care of yourself.

• Realign: Focus on God's purpose for your life and seek His guidance in setting healthy boundaries.

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Welcome back to "Stop the Sacrifice," the podcast where we explore the life-altering power of Becoming New with Faith and how it can guide us on our journey toward personal leadership development and financial literacy toward renewal. I'm your Host, Certified Life Coach Narcissa Helen Nelson, 'The Overcomer.'

We will discuss breaking free from the cycle of unhealthy sacrifices and realigning our lives with God's purpose. But before we start, let's lead in with a word of prayer.

Key Discussion Points:

• Unhealthy Sacrifices:

• Cycle of Unhealthy Sacrifices:

• Personal Experiences:

• Authority in Christ:

  • Luke 10:19

  • Matthew 28:18-20

  • Acts 1:8

  • Ephesians 1:19-21

  • John 14:12-14

  • 1 John 4:4

  • Romans 8:11

  • 2 Corinthians 10:3-5

• Scriptures explaining our authority in Christ through the Holy Spirit:

Emphasizing the need to align actions with God's will, as stated in Matthew 6:33: "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."

Practical Tips:

• Identifying Unhealthy Patterns:

• Setting Boundaries:

"I" Statements Examples:

• Personal Relationships:

• Family Dynamics:

• Workplace:

• With Friends:

• General Situations:

Recap of the importance of breaking free from unhealthy sacrifices to realign with God's purpose and live a life filled with His grace and purpose.

Encouragement to set healthy boundaries and seek God's guidance to honor Him, yourself, and others in a way that brings life, not exhaustion.

Thank you for joining us on 'Stop the Sacrifice.' Stay tuned for more episodes as we continue this journey of renewal and growth. Remember, Stop the Sacrifice!

Prayer for wisdom and strength to set healthy boundaries and seek God's will.

Tips:

• Reflect on the sacrifices you make that leave you feeling drained or unappreciated.

• Ask yourself if these sacrifices align with God's purpose for your life.

• Tune in next time for more insights and practical tips on living a life that honors God and brings fulfillment.

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Host: Certified Life Coach Narcissa Helen Nelson, 'The Overcomer'

Co-Host: Pastor Robert L. Nelson, Jr.

Episode Overview

In this episode of "Stop The Sacrifice," we discussed the concept of sacrificing, exploring why many of us fall into unhealthy patterns and how to shift towards making sacrifices that align with God's purpose for our lives.

Key Discussion Points

1. Definition of Sacrifice:
   • Understanding the true meaning of sacrifice.
   • Differentiating between noble and detrimental sacrifices.
2. Unhealthy Patterns:
   • Root causes of unhealthy sacrificing, including lack of self-worth and fear of rejection.
   • Influence of past experiences, upbringing, and societal expectations.
3. Biblical Perspective:
   • Insights from Romans 12:2 and Romans 8:5-6 on renewing the mind and recognizing our worth in Christ.
   • Encouragement to be transformed by the Holy Spirit.
4. Healthy Sacrificing:
   • Setting boundaries and prioritizing well-being.
   • Making decisions that honor God and ourselves.

Strategies and Tips

1. Identify Areas of Depletion:
   • Reflect on areas in your life where you feel overextended or unappreciated.
   • Acknowledge the emotional and physical toll of unhealthy sacrifices.
2. Reflect on Motivations:
   • Evaluate why you make certain sacrifices.
   • Determine if your motivations align with God's purpose for you.
3. Set Boundaries:
   • Learn to say no to demands that lead to self-neglect.
   • Create space for activities and people that nurture your spirit.
4. Prioritize Self-Care:
   • Dedicate time for prayer, rest, and activities that rejuvenate you.
   • Remember that self-care is essential for effective service to others.
5. Seek Support:
   • Surround yourself with a community that respects and uplifts you.
   • Share your journey with trusted friends or mentors who can offer guidance.
6. Pray for Guidance:
   • Ask God for wisdom to discern healthy sacrifices from unhealthy ones.
   • Pray for the strength to set and maintain boundaries.

Practical Steps for Listeners

• Daily Reflection: Spend a few minutes each day reflecting on your sacrifices and their alignment with God's will.
• Journaling: Write down instances where you feel drained and explore alternative, healthier approaches.
• Scripture Study: Regularly read and meditate on Bible passages that reinforce your value and guide you towards healthy sacrificing.
• Community Involvement: Engage with church groups or support networks that emphasize mutual respect and personal growth.

Conclusion

Join us next week as we continue exploring the journey of renewal and growth. Remember, true sacrifice honors God, yourself, and others in a way that brings life and fulfillment. Stay tuned for more insights and practical tips on "Stop The Sacrifice."

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Welcome to the initial episode of the "Stop the Sacrifice" podcast! Join your hosts, Life Coach Narcissa Helen Nelson, "The Overcomer," and her husband, Co-host Pastor Robert L. Nelson, Jr., as they introduce the core mission of this podcast, which is to assist you in leading a balanced life rooted in faith and self-awareness without unhealthy sacrifices. This podcast is a journey of faith, self-awareness, personal and leadership development, financial literacy, and independence. In this episode, you'll learn about the fundamental differences between healthy and unhealthy sacrifices and why maintaining your well-being is crucial. Discover how you can honor God while living a fulfilling, balanced life. Key Topics:

1. Understanding the Difference: Distinguishing between healthy sacrifices and those that deplete us.
2. Becoming New in Faith: Embracing a Christ-centered life and understanding our worth in God.
3. Self-Awareness and Leadership: Practical tips and biblical principles to become more self-aware and effective leaders.

Scriptures Referenced:

• Proverbs 19:8 (KJV): "He that getteth wisdom loveth his own soul: he that keepeth understanding shall find good."
• Matthew 6:33 (KJV): "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."
• Proverbs 4:23 (KJV): "Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life."
• Philippians 4:13 (KJV): "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me."
• 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (KJV): "What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's."
• Galatians 6:9 (KJV): "And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not."
• Romans 12:1-2 (KJV): "(1) I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. (2) And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God."
• Matthew 11:28-30 (KJV): "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."

Key Takeaways:

• Recognize the difference between healthy and unhealthy sacrifices.
• Embrace your worth in God and let your faith guide you.
• Develop self-awareness and leadership skills rooted in biblical principles.
• Learn to set healthy boundaries and build rewarding relationships.

Action Steps:

1. Reflect on areas in your life where you may be making unhealthy sacrifices.
2. Read and meditate on the scriptures mentioned in this episode.
3. Join us for future episodes as we dive deeper into these topics and much more.

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Welcome to the initial episode of the "Stop the Sacrifice" podcast! Join your hosts, Life Coach Narcissa Helen Nelson, "The Overcomer," and her husband, Co-host Pastor Robert L. Nelson, Jr., as they introduce the core mission of this podcast, which is to assist you in leading a balanced life rooted in faith and self-awareness without unhealthy sacrifices. This podcast is a journey of faith, self-awareness, personal and leadership development, financial literacy, and independence.

Contact & Connections:

• Website:

https://www.leaderonassignment.com

• Email:

[email protected]

• Social Media:

Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/stopthesacrifice_becomingnew?igsh=aDVoeWJnJDV0cGdo Business IG: https://www.instagram.com/leaderonassignment/ Business LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leaderonassignment/ Business TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@leaderonassignment/ Business Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaderonassignment/ https://www.facebook.com/iamnarcissahelen/ Private FBG: https://www.stopthesacrifice.net/ Calendly Clarity call: https://calendly.com/narcissascr/20minclaritymeeting The waiting list for the academy: https://www.leaderonassignment.com/stop-the-sacrifice-academy-waitlist Thank you for joining us on this journey. Together, let's stop making unhealthy sacrifices and embrace the balanced life God has planned for us.