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✰ ABOUT ✰

How do you give yourself permission to dream again? How do you stop playing small when it feels safer to shrink? And what does it look like to step into visibility not just in your career, but also in love?

In this powerful episode, Tumelo Candice Sello (Formerly Candice Modiselle) returns to the podcast to unpack the mindset shifts, fears, and breakthroughs that come with embracing your main character energy and the accompanying mindset shift. Since her last appearance, Candice has stepped into a new chapter of life; she got married, deepened her walk in faith, and adopted a renewed mindset anchored in purpose. She shares what it looks like to release old versions of yourself, confront the fear of visibility, and boldly claim the life you know you’re meant to live. 

We dive into:

•  The danger of waiting for permission vs. choosing yourself

•  Playing small, self-sabotage & unlearning “it’s not possible for me”

•  Moving from survival mode to possibility mode

• Redefining love as agency from waiting to be chosen to choosing yourself

• The turning points that help you step into your soft, bold, authentic life

This conversation is about reinvention, courage, and becoming the main character in your own story not tomorrow, not when everything is perfect, but right now.

✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰

Tumelo Candice Sello (formerly known as Candice Modiselle) is a creative entrepreneur, storyteller, and speaker whose journey embodies reinvention and bold authenticity. With a background spanning stage, screen, and business, Tumelo has become a trusted voice for women navigating visibility, purpose, and faith. Beyond her career, she is deeply passionate about conversations that empower others to shed fear, embrace growth, and step fully into who they are meant to be.

✰ TIMESTAMPS✰

00:00 - Coming Up

01:11 - Rom com maincharacter breakdown

03:36 - She’s bacckkkkkk

04:26 - Check in

05:42 - Genre check

06:59 -The title of this season of Candice’s life

08:06 - Candices top 3 characters in her life right now

09:55 - The fatal flaw 

13:19 - The difference between 20’s Candice and 30’s Candice

19:30 - Listeners dispatch 1: The creative that shrinks herself/plays small

21:08 - The ways in which Candice has played small

23:23 - Candices response to the dilemma

33:39 - Candices advice to someone who is afraid to start over 

37:07 - How Candice is handling Tumelo Selo vs Candice Modiselle

38:40 - Listeners Dispatch 2: Waiting to be chosen

39:36 - Candices response to the dilemma

47:54 - Candices past experience shrinking herself in romantic relationships

51:25 - Healthy compromise vs settling 

56:35 - Closing credits 

57:59 - Post credits 

✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰

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Guest

Candice

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✰ LISTEN ON ✰ 

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Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id5426930?...

✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰

E-mail: [email protected] 

✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰

Director: Bokang Lehlokoe

Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi 

Videographer & Editor: Palesa Radebe