In this episode of Strength to Become, Karen Papin dives into this month’s For the Strength of Youth lesson on becoming a covenant daughter — and covenant son — of God. This FSY lesson draws on the lives of Emma and Joseph Smith to show what it looks like to lead, teach, mentor, and draw on the power and authority of God even in the middle of real hardship.
Karen unpacks the “I am” statements that open this For the Strength of Youth lesson for both young women and young men, then walks through the background of Emma and Joseph’s marriage, the trials they endured — persecution, poverty, the loss of several children, and repeated upheaval — and how the Lord prepared each of them for what lay ahead.
From there, Karen teaches through Doctrine and Covenants section 25, verse by verse, unpacking what it means that Emma was called an “elect lady,” how the Lord promised to forgive her sins, ordain her to expound and exhort, and call her to compile a hymnbook for the Church. She connects this FSY lesson’s themes of meekness, humility, and trust in God’s timing to Proverbs 3:5–6, and shares a personal story of overcoming anxiety about public speaking through faith.
For the young men’s portion of the lesson, Karen turns to Joseph Smith’s history and Doctrine and Covenants section 20, exploring what it meant for Joseph to be called a “fellow servant” of John the Baptist and what that means for young men holding the priesthood today.
Whether you’re a parent, a youth leader, or working through this FSY lesson on your own, this episode offers discussion questions, doctrinal insight, and practical takeaways to help you and the youth in your life feel closer to the Savior.
Scriptures referenced: Doctrine and Covenants 25; Doctrine and Covenants 20:46–59; Joseph Smith—History 1:69; Proverbs 3:5–6
Call to action: For more on Emma Smith’s life and legacy, catch the companion episode on the Divine Worth Podcast, releasing Thursday, September 24th. Next week, Karen shares tips on leading small-group discussions with youth (no FSY lesson that week due to General Conference), and the following Sunday she’ll cover October’s introductory lesson, “Your Body Is Sacred.”*This podcast is not officially endorsed by or affiliated with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The thoughts, opinions, and interpretations shared are Karen's own.
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Strength to Become Podcast — Episode Transcript
Welcome to Strength to Become, the podcast where we are diving into the For the Strength of Youth lessons so that we can become closer to the Savior, Jesus Christ, and have the strength to become who He sees in us. I am your host, Karen Papin, and I’m really excited to dive into this lesson today, because this is the whole reason why I started this podcast.
On my other podcast, the Divine Worth Podcast, I wanted to make the new season I’m currently doing more focused on women in the scriptures. Once a month I dive into a woman within the scriptures and how that relates to our divine worth. Then I found out that the For the Strength of Youth lessons once a month are going to be diving into a woman in the scriptures too. So I thought, well, I can follow along and do this lesson on my podcast — and then I felt impressed that I should actually start a new podcast for the For the Strength of Youth lessons, to discuss all of them, not just this one. That’s why I started the Strength to Become podcast, and I’m really excited to dive into this lesson.
Setting the Stage
One thing I love about this lesson is how it starts out — with an “I am” statement that reminds us of who we are. This lesson is on becoming a covenant daughter of God, and it starts out: “I am a beloved daughter of heaven, with a divine nature and eternal destiny.” That sounds a lot like the Young Women theme — beautiful truths that, if we truly embrace them, can help us overcome anything we’re going through in life.
It continues: “I lead, teach, and mentor others courageously by drawing on the power and authority of God and listening to the Spirit.” So as we dive into this lesson, that’s the focus — that we are people who can lead, teach, and mentor others, and that we have the ability to draw on the power and authority of God as we do so, being guided by the Spirit.
That’s what it says for the young women. The young men’s statement is a little different: “I am a beloved son of God, and He has a work for me to do. I will help others connect with God and Jesus Christ by worthily administering in the ordinances of the Aaronic Priesthood, including baptism and the sacrament.”
The young men are reminded that they are sons of God and that He has a work for them to do — something young men really need to know and understand. There’s a purpose for them, just as the young women are told they have a purpose to lead and to teach.
Two Lessons in One
This lesson gets a little tricky because there are actually two lessons this week — one for the young women, focused on Emma Smith and becoming a covenant daughter of God, and one for the young men, focused on Joseph Smith and becoming a covenant son of God. I’ll talk about some of what Joseph and Emma went through together, then cover the young women’s lesson, and then the young men’s.
Joseph and Emma’s Story
Joseph and Emma were people who went through a lot. We know Joseph Smith had an incredible vision — he saw God the Father and Jesus Christ in the Sacred Grove and was told the true church wasn’t on the earth, and eventually was told to restore it. Several years after that first vision, he met Emma Hale. Her parents opposed the marriage — he was poor, and had this religious claim of having seen the Savior, while her parents were wealthy and skeptical. Emma married him anyway, showing real strength — she was willing to leave a life of wealth for the uncertainty of a life with Joseph Smith.
It was a very uncertain life. They were driven from place to place, sometimes prospering, sometimes barely scraping by. As you study their lives, you can see how the Lord prepared them for what He had in store. Emma being raised in wealth likely helped prepare her for her role as first lady of Nauvoo and the first Relief Society president — she knew how to interact in society and with grace because of how she was raised.
Together, Joseph and Emma lost several of their eleven children, sometimes because of mobs and persecution, sometimes simply because of the medical limitations of the time. They knew grief intimately, and they experienced it over and over. Joseph was also in and out of jail, and there were times Emma had to pack up the family and leave their home. They went through a lot of hardship.
Diving Into the Lesson
In the For the Strength of Youth magazine, there’s a great discussion question: What opportunities do you have to lead, teach, mentor, expound the scriptures, and encourage others? How has doing this brought you closer to the Savior?
What I love about this question is that it gets youth thinking about the impact they’re already having and are capable of having — in their friend groups, in their families, at school. They have real opportunities to lead, teach, mentor, and encourage others in each of these settings.
When I was a youth, I had opportunities to share the scriptures with others outside our faith, and in seminary we’d give spiritual thoughts and share quotes or scriptures we loved. I love that our church gives kids these kinds of opportunities — to bear testimony, to give lessons themselves, to take an active role in planning — because they are capable of leading, teaching, mentoring, expounding the scriptures, and encouraging others. There have been many times in my life when a youth speaker said exactly what I needed to hear, or my own kids taught me something I hadn’t thought of, or helped me realize I don’t have as much patience as I thought. We can learn from each other, and that’s true of youth as well.
As for how this has brought me closer to the Savior — as I teach, as I testify, as I share my experiences with others, I feel closer to the Lord. As a youth, I really struggled to open my mouth and speak; there were times I just couldn’t get the words out. It’s been a process to get to where I am now — doing a podcast, public speaking, sharing my testimony vocally. The Lord led me step by step. I remember the first time I truly believed the Lord would help me give a talk. I said a little prayer — “Heavenly Father, please help me to do this, help me get the words out” — and as I opened my mouth to speak, peace came over me and I was able to give my talk.
And I felt so close to the Lord. Throughout this whole journey — now with two podcasts, summits, public speaking, a mission served on Temple Square — this has happened again and again. When I open my mouth to share what’s on my heart, to share the truthfulness of the gospel, I feel the Spirit and I feel the Lord with me. In some ways, my anxiety has actually brought me closer to Him. As we put our faith and trust in the Lord, as we seek to become a covenant daughter of the Lord, He is there with us, and He will help us and guide us.
Doctrine and Covenants 25
Now let’s dive into Doctrine and Covenants section 25 and look at what the Lord reveals to Emma about being a covenant daughter of God.
Verse 1: “Hearken unto the voice of the Lord your God, while I speak unto you, Emma Smith, my daughter; for verily I say unto you, all those who receive my gospel are sons and daughters in my kingdom.”
The Lord tells Emma — and by extension, us — “You are my daughter.” He knows her by name, just as He knows us by name. All who receive His gospel are His sons and daughters in His kingdom.
Verse 2: “A revelation I give unto you concerning my will; and if thou art faithful and walk in the paths of virtue before me, I will preserve thy life, and thou shalt receive an inheritance in Zion.”
As we walk in paths of virtue, seeking to follow His guidance, He will give us that inheritance.
Verse 3 is one I love: “Behold, thy sins are forgiven thee, and thou art an elect lady, whom I have called.” How wonderful to hear that phrase — “thy sins are forgiven thee.” That’s a blessing we can all receive because of the Atonement, because of the Savior.
What does it mean to be an “elect lady”? Elect can mean chosen by God, and lady is a title of high respect and honor — one Emma was likely familiar with. So the Lord is saying: you are someone I have chosen, and someone worthy of respect and honor.
Verse 4: “Murmur not because of the things which thou hast not seen, for they are withheld from thee and from the world, which is wisdom in me in a time to come.”
I can learn a lot from this verse. Sometimes I don’t have the answer to everything, or understand why certain things happen. But the Lord knows and understands, and it’s not always meant for us to know why something is happening right now. Trust in the Lord and His wisdom — He has a much greater view than we do, and in due time all things will be revealed.
Verse 7: “And thou shalt be ordained under his hand to expound scriptures, and to exhort the church, according as it shall be given thee by my Spirit.” Emma is given the opportunity to teach, expound, and exhort.
Verse 8: “For he shall lay his hands upon thee, and thou shalt receive the Holy Ghost, and thy time shall be given to writing, and to learning much.” As members of the church, we too receive the gift of the Holy Ghost to guide and lead us as the Lord calls us to serve — just as we’ve been talking about the priesthood power and authority given to us as we’re set apart for our callings.
Verse 10: “And verily I say unto thee, that thou shalt lay aside the things of this world, and seek for the things of a better.” Counsel not to focus on the things of the world that don’t bring eternal happiness — seek first the kingdom of God, and all things shall be added unto us.
Emma is then called to compile a hymnbook. Verse 12: “For my soul delighteth in the song of the heart; yea, the song of the righteous is a prayer unto me, and it shall be answered with a blessing upon their heads.” These songs are prayers, and as people sing them, they will be blessed. Emma has a unique opportunity to do something that will help others receive blessings from the Lord.
Verse 13: “Wherefore, lift up thy heart and rejoice, and cleave unto the covenants which thou hast made. Continue in the spirit of meekness, and beware of pride. Let thy soul delight in thy husband, and the glory which shall come upon him. Keep my commandments continually, and a crown of righteousness thou shalt receive. And except thou do this, where I am you cannot come.”
In the midst of this calling, there’s counsel: be meek, be humble, watch out for pride, keep the commandments, and you’ll be blessed with a crown of righteousness.
God is calling Emma to a great work — to teach, expound, exhort, and compile hymns so others can receive strength and support. We too have callings the Lord is asking of us. As it says in Proverbs 3:5–6, “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” Trust Him. Be humble. Be meek. Beware of pride. Acknowledge Him in all our ways, so that we too can be an “elect lady.”
As you’ve listened, I hope you recognize that you are of worth, and I hope you’ll think about how the Spirit has guided you in doing the work God has asked of you. As women in the church, the Lord is asking us to teach and strengthen those around us — and the same is true for the young men.
The Young Men’s Lesson: Joseph Smith
Doctrine and Covenants 20:46–59 says the priest’s duty is to preach, teach, expound, exhort, baptize, and administer the sacrament. Teachers and deacons are to warn, expound, exhort, and teach, and help all come unto Christ.
Joseph Smith had a great work to do — he restored the gospel to this earth. The For the Strength of Youth magazine asks: What does Joseph Smith teach us about living as a covenant son of God? Look at what he went through — persecution, false accusation, arrest, jail, beatings, the loss of children, being repeatedly taken from his family, and ultimately martyrdom. And all of this because he could not deny what he had seen. As it says in Joseph Smith—History, “I knew it, and I knew that God knew it, and I could not deny it... I had actually seen a light, and in the midst of that light I saw two Personages, and they did in reality speak to me... I could not deny it, neither dared I do it.”
Joseph Smith—History, verse 69: “Upon you, my fellow servants, in the name of Messiah, I confer the Priesthood of Aaron, which holds the keys of the ministering of angels, and of the gospel of repentance, and of baptism by immersion for the remission of sins; and this shall never be taken again from the earth, until the sons of Levi do offer again an offering unto the Lord in righteousness.”
The question that follows in the magazine: How do you think Joseph Smith might have felt to hear John the Baptist call him a “fellow servant”? What does that mean to you, to be fellow servants of John the Baptist? A great question to consider — especially for young men, to help them understand that they too can be fellow servants with John the Baptist, who prepared the world for Christ and baptized the Savior. These young men now have the opportunity to teach and help bring others unto Christ, just as John the Baptist did, and when given priesthood authority, to baptize them as they come unto the Lord.
Wrapping Up
To close out this lesson, the article in the For the Strength of Youth magazine asks — for both young men and young women — As you study the FSY guide this month, what have you learned about the Savior and His priesthood keys and authority, and how does this help you accomplish His work? That really wraps up our entire month: recognizing that priesthood keys and priesthood authority help us move forward with the Lord in our lives, bring others unto Him, and teach, expound, exhort, and serve others.
What a great lesson this has been — diving into the examples of Emma Smith and Joseph Smith, the scriptures in Doctrine and Covenants and Joseph Smith—History, and recognizing that we too are called to this work: to teach others, to lead them, to mentor them, and to share the scriptures with them.
Looking Ahead
Thank you so much for joining me as we’ve dived into this week’s For the Strength of Youth lesson for both the young women and the young men. Next week is General Conference, so there’s no FSY lesson — instead, I want to dive into tips for preparing, guiding, and teaching youth, especially for leading small-group discussions around the questions in these lessons.
If you’re interested in hearing more about Emma Smith’s life, and how we can see God’s love for us through her example and through Doctrine and Covenants section 25, I have a companion episode diving even deeper into Emma Smith over on my Divine Worth podcast — that comes out on Thursday, September 24th.
I’ll see you there, or next week for the lesson on teaching our youth to lead. The following Sunday after General Conference, we’ll focus on the week one lesson for October — the introduction lesson, “Your Body Is Sacred.”
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