In this episode, the PolySoCal panel explores the difference between structured time and unstructured time in polyamorous relationships, and why both matter. The conversation digs into intentionality, spontaneity, coexisting versus connecting, and how different kinds of time can fill different emotional needs.

Through personal examples involving dating, cohabitation, errands, house swaps, and day-to-day life, the group examines how structured time often centers around intentional connection, while unstructured time builds comfort, familiarity, and a sense of family. The discussion highlights how definitions can vary between partners, and why clear communication about needs is essential to maintaining healthy, balanced relationships.

Alonzo Banx, Heather, Patty, Noah, Jon, Beeb, Max