In the final week of our March series, Forming Leaders Before Leading Students, hosts Brent & David tackle a reality that many youth leaders experience but rarely talk about openly: what it looks like to keep showing up in ministry when your faith feels dry.

There are seasons where:

• You’re leading, but feel distant.
• You’re teaching, but feel empty.
• You’re praying, but hear silence.

And in those moments, it can be tempting to question your calling — or feel like you’re falling short as a leader.

In this episode, Brent & David create space for honest conversation around spiritual dryness and remind leaders that these seasons are not signs of failure, but often part of deeper formation.

Together they explore:

• Why spiritual dryness is more common than we admit
• The tension of leading others while feeling spiritually empty
• What Scripture shows us about seasons of lament and struggle
• How to lead with honesty instead of pretending
• Practices that help sustain faith during difficult seasons

This episode is a reminder that God is still at work — even in the quiet, even in the desert, even when you don’t feel it.

Because the truth is:
You don’t have to feel full to be faithful.

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Thanks for listening to Student Ministry Conversations. Brent & David are grateful to walk alongside you as you lead — in every season, even the dry ones.

In Week 3 of our March series, Forming Leaders Before Leading Students, hosts Brent & David take a deeper look at the difference between striving in ministry and abiding in Christ.

In a culture that often measures success by output, productivity, and visible results, it’s easy for youth leaders to drift into striving — constantly doing more, producing more, and carrying more pressure.

But Jesus offers a different way.

In this episode, Brent & David unpack what it means to lead from a place of abiding rather than exhaustion, and how true, lasting fruit in ministry flows from connection with Christ — not constant effort.

Together they discuss:

• The subtle ways striving shows up in youth ministry
• Why productivity can become a false measure of success
• What Jesus teaches about abiding in Him
• How to recognize when you’re leading from pressure instead of presence
• Simple, practical rhythms that help leaders stay connected to Christ

This conversation invites leaders to slow down, release unnecessary pressure, and rediscover the freedom of leading from overflow instead of depletion.

Because at the end of the day: You cannot manufacture spiritual fruit through effort alone.

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Thanks for listening to Student Ministry Conversations, where Brent & David talk about the real challenges, growth, and calling of serving the next generation.

In Week 2 of our March series, Forming Leaders Before Leading Students, hosts Brent & David dive into an often overlooked but incredibly important topic for youth leaders: emotional health.

Ministry formation isn’t just spiritual and theological — it’s emotional too. In this episode, Brent & David talk about why youth leaders can’t disciple students past their own emotional maturity and how our inner emotional world quietly shapes the way we lead.

Together they explore:

• Why identifying emotional triggers matters in ministry
• The difference between reacting and responding in leadership moments
• How unresolved pain can unintentionally influence the way we lead
• Why students need emotionally steady and regulated adults
• The powerful example of the emotional life of Jesus

This conversation is an invitation for youth leaders to reflect honestly during this Lenten season and consider how emotional maturity plays a role in healthy, sustainable ministry.

Because the truth is simple:
Unprocessed emotions eventually become public leadership problems.

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Brent Aiken
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David Pruitt
Facebook: @dpruitt
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Thanks for listening to Student Ministry Conversations, where Brent & David talk about the real challenges, growth, and calling of serving the next generation.

Welcome to the podcast! In this opening episode of our March series, Forming Leaders Before Leading Students, Brent & David invite youth leaders to slow down and look inward.

Before strategy.

Before programming.

Before measurable growth.

This week, we’re talking about The Hidden Life of a Youth Leader — the character, integrity, and unseen faithfulness that shape everything students experience publicly. Because the truth is simple: you can’t lead students where you’re unwilling to go.

In this conversation, Brent & David unpack:

• Why private formation matters more than public platform
• The danger of performing spirituality in ministry
• How Lent invites leaders into deeper integrity
• Practical rhythms that cultivate a sustainable inner life

If you’re serving students, leading volunteers, or navigating your own spiritual formation, this episode is an invitation to tend to the roots — not just polish the fruit.

If this episode encourages you, would you consider sharing it?

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Brent Aiken

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David Pruitt
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Thanks for listening to Student Ministry Conversations. We’re grateful to walk alongside you as you lead — and as God forms you in the process.

Welcome back to the podcast! This week Brent and David close the series for February. They are sitting down to talk about the discouragement that can come from students not seeming like they are responding to the message and where we might need to shift our focus when we evaluate our ministry using metrics.

Whether you are a young or old youth pastor, we would love for you to listen in and see what is talked about in today's episode and we would also love to hear from you!

What is your tidbit of advice that you would add to the conversation? You can listen to this episode on all your preferred podcast providers.

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Welcome back to the podcast! This week Brent and David continue the series for February. They are sitting down to talk about the importance of reframing the concept of your volunteers from providing chaperones to building shepherds for the students in your ministry.

Whether you are a young or old youth pastor, we would love for you to listen in and see what is talked about in today's episode and we would also love to hear from you!

What is your tidbit of advice that you would add to the conversation?You can listen to this episode on all your preferred podcast providers.

We would also love to have you join the conversation if you would like to be on the show!Shoot us a message on social media (@talkstudentmin) or an email ([email protected]) to get a time set for you to be on the show.

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David Pruitt - @pruacoustic

Welcome back to the podcast! This week Brent and David continue the series for February. They are sitting down to talk about the importance of longevity in youth ministry as well as the core principles of building trust with students in your ministry.

Whether you are a young or old youth pastor, we would love for you to listen in and see what is talked about in today's episode and we would also love to hear from you!

What is your tidbit of advice that you would add to the conversation?You can listen to this episode on all your preferred podcast providers.

We would also love to have you join the conversation if you would like to be on the show!Shoot us a message on social media (@talkstudentmin) or an email ([email protected]) to get a time set for you to be on the show.

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Youtube - ⁠⁠⁠"Student Ministry Conversations"⁠⁠⁠

Connect With The Hosts

Brent Aiken – @heybrentaiken

David Pruitt - @pruacoustic

Welcome back to the podcast! This week Brent and David start the series for February. This week they are sitting down to talk about the importance of focusing all of our programs to utilize relationships as a priority as well as some relational boundaries that need to be in place and how to build a relationship focus in your ministry.

Whether you are a young or old youth pastor, we would love for you to listen in and see what is talked about in today's episode and we would also love to hear from you!

What is your tidbit of advice that you would add to the conversation?You can listen to this episode on all your preferred podcast providers.

We would also love to have you join the conversation if you would like to be on the show!Shoot us a message on social media (@talkstudentmin) or an email ([email protected]) to get a time set for you to be on the show.

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Brent Aiken – @heybrentaiken

David Pruitt - @pruacoustic

Welcome back to the podcast! This week Brent and David close the series for the month of January called "Lose the Noise" continuing to talk about the dangers of content consuming as a practice for students when we are called to create image-bearers of Jesus.

Whether you are a young or old youth pastor, we would love for you to listen in and see what is talked about in today's episode and we would also love to hear from you!

What is your tidbit of advice that you would add to the conversation?You can listen to this episode on all your preferred podcast providers.

We would also love to have you join the conversation if you would like to be on the show!Shoot us a message on social media (@talkstudentmin) or an email ([email protected]) to get a time set for you to be on the show.

Connect With SMC

⁠www.studentministryconversations.org⁠

Instagram – ⁠@talkstudentmin⁠

Facebook – ⁠@talkstudentmin⁠

Youtube - ⁠"Student Ministry Conversations"⁠

Connect With The Hosts

Brent Aiken – @heybrentaiken

David Pruitt - @pruacoustic

Welcome back to the podcast! This week Brent and David continue the series for the month of January called "Lose the Noise" talking about the importance of teaching and practicing the discipline of silence.

Whether you are a young or old youth pastor, we would love for you to listen in and see what is talked about in today's episode and we would also love to hear from you!

What is your tidbit of advice that you would add to the conversation?You can listen to this episode on all your preferred podcast providers.

We would also love to have you join the conversation if you would like to be on the show!Shoot us a message on social media (@talkstudentmin) or an email ([email protected]) to get a time set for you to be on the show.

Connect With SMC

www.studentministryconversations.org

Instagram – @talkstudentmin

Facebook – @talkstudentmin

Youtube - "Student Ministry Conversations"

Connect With The Hosts

Brent Aiken – @heybrentaiken

David Pruitt - @pruacoustic