Sometimes when the "stuff" in my life is really spinning out of control, I start looking around. You would think my first thought would be to look for help, a way out. Nope. Do I look for a lesson to be learned from all of this? Not on your life - I'm in no mood for a lesson. When the stuff really hits hard, I have a couple of more primal concerns - wrong ones - and so do you. This Sunday at Mendham Hills, we learn the wrong questions to ask in our stuff, and the right one to help us make some sense of it all.