Stuff You Should Contemplate

We talked about the upcoming Thanksgiving and we ended up going into music and how it can definitely be therapeutic, and how do you decide if you like a song, do you listen to the lyrics first or the music and flow of the song? Do you think the lyrics have an effect on children or even adults for that matter. Do you and your significant other like the same music? And what if you and your person don’t agree on liking the same music? Is that a deal breaker?

We talk about the upcoming Thanksgiving 2020, what we will be doing, and how many people seem to dread the holidays for one reason or another due to expectations from themselves or others. Will I stay at home this year with my daughter and create our own tradition or will I venture out of the house to find new things to do and new people to spend time with? We also talk about the show that I just watched, Love is Blind. Can you fall in love without ever seeing the person?

Today we let our conversation go wherever it wanted to and in the end we came to the point of Being Accountable for Yourself and Not Holding Others Responsible for Your Lack of Happiness.

This episode we find out how a mom handles it when her 16 year old son chooses to live with his sperm donor, who has really never taken stepped up to the plate to be there in his son’s life. Is he really just there to antagonize the mom or is he genuine in this newfound interest of his son?

In addition, we talk about when you start dating someone, do you know when you’ve met the real person vs still dealing with their ‘representative’ who is putting on their best behavior. Plus a few more topics that I can’t even remember lol. And as always, if you’ve come to a place in life where you’ve lost your ‘happy’ and don’t know how to get it back then check out my site for more info... Darlenealisa.com

When you end one relationship, do you jump right into the next one? Are you automatically looking for the next person to be with? Or do you have the ability and desire to appreciate the space between relationships where you come back to learning more about who you are? Can you appreciate alone time without feeling lonely? Join us for our talk about Being Alone vs Jumping into a New Relationship. If you do realize that you have a pattern of jumping from relationship to relationship and are still not finding happiness then there may be something preventing you from successfully finding what you’re looking for, and I may just be able to assist in breaking the pattern. Check out my website to see if trapped emotions from the past are contributing to this pattern in relationships for you, or share your story with us at Darlenealisa.com. Blessings and namasté

Do we really need all the ‘shit’ we keep in our lives? Is having lots of things and people in our life a status marker or is all that we have weighing us down unnecessarily, creating more unhappiness and frustration?

Do we really need all the ‘shit’ we keep in our lives? Is having lots of things and people in our life a status marker or is all that we have weighing us down unnecessarily, creating more unhappiness and frustration?

In this first episode on relationships we talk about dating, from being young to what it’s like to date again after marriage and in your 40’s. We welcome your questions and comments about topics relating to relationships. Contact us at Darlenealisa.com

Today we just let the conversation go wherever it flowed. We laughed about people and their pets, and ended up talking about the annoying things people do and say. People are fascinating with the stuff they do and say. Do people actually ‘think’ before they operate out in the World? Hmmm