Sometimes the "Stupid Things Jory Micah Says" hit upon a grain of truth, but then she manages to completely botch the application. "Single pastor in his 30s dates a young woman congregant in her 20s for a time. She is in love with him. He sleeps with her. She thinks he is in love with her too. He is bored. He uses her for a time until he finds someone he thinks is better. This is spiritual abuse 101."