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 Let’s break down what topping from the bottom is, why it’s so bad, how it can be good, and learn some tricks to stop the poor behavior in its tracks that leads to it.

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Resources:

• Arcane Advice article on Topping from the Bottom: https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/topping-from-the-bottom-why-its-bad-and-when-its-good/
• Resistance Play: https://www.kinkly.com/definition/810/resistance-play
• Healthy Communication Skills on Submissive Guide: https://submissiveguide.com/search?query=healthy+communication

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Communication is a key topic to developing and maintaining healthy, open relationships. But many of us need to learn what good communication looks like and have problems with at least one part of good communication techniques.

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One of the best skills a submissive can learn is observation. Observation can also be neglected in your daily and work life, so learning requires you to reteach your mind, eyes, focus, and attention. It's so worth it.

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Anticipatory Service

Personality and Behavior Tests:

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Your limits are unique to you and may change over time as you gain experience and self-awareness. Embrace the opportunity for self-discovery and pleasure as you unlock the secrets to understanding and embracing your BDSM limits.

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BDSM Limits Explained
Using Checklists to Figure Out Your Kinky Limits
Establishing Boundaries & Limits in BDSM
Novices and Newbies Group on FetLife

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Explore the journey of embracing dirty talk. With practical tips, personal stories, and valuable resources, readers are encouraged to break free from inhibitions and discover the liberating potential of vocalizing desires and fantasies.

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• Exhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot! by Carol Queen
• Sex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns You On by Lauren Dockett
• The Dirty Slang Dictionary

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A beginner's guide that explores the practice of orgasm control and its potential for enhancing pleasure. The first in the series, this article covers the first steps to exploring orgasm control in your play.

Resources on Orgasm Control Mechanics:

• Orgasm Control by Rover
• Orgasm Control Conditioning of Females on FetLife
• Train Your Body to Orgasm on Command
• Orgasm Control Training: They Can’t Resist
• Orgasm Control by gina

Study: Women's Attributions Regarding Why They Have Difficulty Reaching Orgasm

Book: The Elusive Orgasm: A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can Orgasm" by Vivienne Cass, Ph.D

Part 2 of the Orgasm Control Training Series: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/orgasm-on-command-training-the-process-for-the-submissive 

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In D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships, rules are often used to provide structure and establish boundaries within the power exchange dynamic. These rules serve as a guide for submissives to follow, which allows us to focus on our submission and the expectations of our Dominant partner.

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 Being asked to beg for something is one of the simplest forms of erotic humiliation within a BDSM scenario. It’s also one that can be quite difficult for people to learn.

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Other people's thoughts on begging:
Begging In BDSM by Raven Shadowborne
A Kinkster’s Guide to Begging on A Kinkster’s Guide
How Do I Beg/Plead Better? on BDSM Training Academy
Begging For It Podcast on Pleasure Mechanics

Enough to Make You Blush by Princess Kali - https://amzn.to/42zIEi7

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Wearing a Dominant’s collar is often a goal of any submissive in a D/s relationship. However, defining what a collar is and how you prepare to accept it can be daunting. Let’s tackle the important points about collars and if you are prepared for what a collar may mean for you and your relationship.

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Here are a few more posts on collars you might find interesting:

• A Complete Guide to BDSM Collars
• The Role of the Collar in a Long Distance Relationship by kallista
• The Impact of Velcro Collars on the Symbolism and Value of Collars in D/s Relationships
• What Is a Collar in a D/s Relationship?
• What it Means to be Collared by LadySneak
• How to Plan a Formal Collaring Ceremony

Tiered Collar System:

• Collar of Consideration
• Training Collar
• Formal Collar

Series on Limits on Submissive Guide

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I’ve gathered seven of the best books to help you get started on your exploration of BDSM and the submissive role. 

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All links to the book reviews, GoodReads, and Amazon are linked in the above article.

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