This is the first of two episodes where Timmy talks about a few simple things that has really helped in not only enjoy the whole dating process, but also see some real success as well. It's important to define "Success" because you'd think that means you find your person, and of course that could be considered a "success" of sorts, most assuredly. But let's define success as "Enjoying the journey on the way to the destination" rather than getting to the finish line. "It's more about the journey ON THE WAY to the finish line," Timmy says. So if we look at "Successful Dating" with that mindset, it's achievable NOW rather than sometime way out in the future (when you meet your person). If we're only going to be successful when we accomplish the desired goal, that means its going to suck along the way, but not with how Timmy looks at dating. You can enjoy it right NOW!