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Ever notice how some service professionals can walk into tense situations and instantly change the entire mood? There's a secret behind this superpower, and it comes from an unexpected source: FBI hostage negotiation tactics.

Imagine having the ability to defuse customer frustration, overcome price objections, and build instant trust—all by saying a few simple words and then staying silent. This transformative communication technique called "labeling" was perfected by Chris Voss, the FBI's former lead international hostage negotiator, and it works just as effectively in crawl spaces and kitchens as it does in crisis situations.

At its core, labeling is deceptively simple: you calmly acknowledge what the other person seems to be feeling without judgment. "It sounds like this has been frustrating" or "It seems like you want to make sure this investment makes sense." These neutral observations create an immediate connection that bypasses defensiveness and opens the door to real conversation. The magic lies in what happens next—you pause and let silence do the work. That space allows customers to feel heard and naturally share more information about their concerns.

This technique isn't just for difficult customers. Use it with your team, your boss, or anyone you need to communicate with more effectively. When people feel understood, everything changes. Shoulders relax, trust builds, and suddenly you're not just another contractor—you're a trusted advisor who gets it. That's when customers approve bigger jobs, choose premium options, and become loyal advocates for your business.

Ready to transform your customer conversations? Try labeling in three interactions this week. Notice moments of tension, use one of the magic phrases, and then embrace the pause. You'll be amazed at how this simple FBI technique can elevate your communication, reduce stress, and ultimately help you close more deals. The calmest person in the room is always the most powerful—and labeling is your path to becoming that person.

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Feeling pulled in all directions? Burnt out? Secretly resenting customers, coworkers, or even family? It's time to master the art of boundaries.

The trades world celebrates problem solvers and those who go the extra mile, but without proper boundaries, that admirable work ethic leads straight to exhaustion and frustration. In this powerful episode, we dive deep into what boundaries really are (hint: not walls keeping people out, but fences protecting what matters most) and why they're especially crucial for plumbers, HVAC techs, drain specialists, and other skilled tradespeople.

You'll discover why setting boundaries feels so difficult, especially when we're conditioned to be providers rather than protectors of our own time. I share the exact phrases you can use to say no without guilt, protect your energy on job sites, and hold the line when people test your limits. From dealing with demanding customers to managing after-hours work calls, these practical examples will transform how you approach your professional and personal life.

Remember this: "A boundary without consequences is not a boundary." Learn how to not just set limits but enforce them consistently, even as they evolve throughout your career. Understand that when you first start setting boundaries, people might resist—and that's actually proof they're working! Your job isn't to keep everyone happy; it's to keep yourself healthy, focused, and respected.

Ready to reclaim your time, energy, and self-respect? Take my challenge: identify one area where you're saying yes but really want to say no, and commit to changing that pattern this week. Your future self will thank you.

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Ever walked into a customer's home with sewage flooding their basement and tension filling the air? That moment isn't just about your technical skills—it's about your emotional intelligence. And mastering it could be the game-changer your plumbing business needs.

The most respected person on a job site isn't always the most technically skilled—it's the one who stays calm when everything goes sideways. This powerful insight sits at the heart of what makes successful plumbers stand out in an increasingly competitive industry. While most training focuses on tools and techniques, the ability to read a room, manage your reactions, and guide anxious customers through high-stress situations often determines whether you close the sale or leave empty-handed.

This deep dive into emotional intelligence for plumbing professionals introduces two transformative phrases that can change every customer interaction: "I need" and "I can tell." Rather than appearing weak, these phrases establish clear boundaries and demonstrate leadership. They help you navigate trigger situations—like being watched while running a camera or getting blamed for pre-existing damage—with confidence and control. Through practical examples and real-world scenarios, you'll learn how to read customer body language, respond to unspoken concerns, and transform potentially confrontational situations into opportunities for connection and trust building. The result? More closed jobs, fewer callbacks, and a reputation that sets you apart not just as a technician, but as a true professional.

Ready to upgrade your emotional toolkit? This isn't about being "soft"—it's about being smart, strategic, and unstoppable. Share this episode with your team, especially those who need it most, and watch how small changes in communication can lead to significant improvements in your bottom line.

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Your words are currency in the trades—every phrase either builds trust or destroys it in seconds. When your technician says "I think this might help" versus "This is the best solution based on what I'm seeing, and here's why," they're not just changing words—they're changing your company's revenue potential.

This powerful episode dives deep into the psychology of service business communication, revealing why customers don't actually buy plumbing or HVAC solutions—they buy certainty, peace of mind, and problems being removed from their plate. When your team sounds uncertain, it triggers customer fear, delays decisions, and costs your company thousands in lost revenue every week.

I share practical training methods you can implement immediately, including how to upgrade your team's common phrases, role-play objection handling, and customize language for different customer personality types. The DISC profile breakdown alone will transform how your team communicates—Dominant customers want bottom lines, Influencers need emotional connection, Steady types seek comfort, and Analytical folks crave details.

The results speak for themselves. One plumbing company implemented these language techniques and watched their close rate jump 20% with a 15% ticket size increase in just 60 days—same team, same service, new words. This isn't just about sales; your leadership language shapes your entire company culture and sets the foundation for success.

Ready to transform your service business through the power of words? Start by auditing your team's language, upgrading five key phrases, and implementing weekly role-play sessions. Remember: certainty sells, language leads, and culture starts with the words you train. This is the separator between a million-dollar shop and a $10 million shop—and it begins with the next sentence your technician says at the customer's door.

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Communication might be the most underrated skill in the home service industry. While technical expertise is essential, how you speak to homeowners often determines whether you close the sale or walk away empty-handed.

Jefferson Fisher, an attorney and communication expert, offers a perspective-shifting insight that could transform your approach: "The person you see isn't the person you're talking to." When you step into a customer's home to fix their AC or repair a plumbing issue, you're entering a private world layered with stresses that have nothing to do with HVAC or plumbing. They might be dealing with a sick parent, financial pressure, or workplace stress. Recognizing this hidden dimension and leading with empathy isn't just good manners—it's good business.

Your words function as tools just as important as your wrenches and gauges. The distinction between saying "this is your only choice" versus "let me walk you through some options" can completely transform customer receptivity. Through powerful real-world examples—including the story of a technician who proved his thoroughness by pointing out an intact cobweb across a crawl space entrance—we see how authentic communication builds the trust that leads to sales. The most successful service professionals don't just fix problems; they create comfort, security, and peace of mind by approaching every conversation with empathy, choosing their words carefully, and genuinely seeking to understand their customers' needs.

Ready to elevate your communication skills and close more calls the right way? Listen to discover the three key takeaways that can transform your approach to in-home sales. And if you've found value in this episode, please take 30 seconds to leave us a five-star review—it helps other service professionals discover these insights and level up their skills too.

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What if everything you believe about digital marketing is leading your home service business down a dangerous path? In this eye-opening conversation with digital marketing veteran Jonathan Bannister, we uncover why the constant chase for Google rankings has created a generation of "digital junkies" in the home service industry.

Bannister doesn't hold back as he reveals the uncomfortable truth: digital marketing has made business owners fat and lazy. After a decade helping HVAC, plumbing, and roofing companies navigate the digital landscape, he's witnessed firsthand how the addiction to leads has replaced fundamental business practices like excellent customer service and effective sales processes. His provocative new book title says it all: "F*** Digital Marketing: Why Building a Memorable Brand Matters More Than Rankings."

The conversation takes a fascinating turn when Bannister predicts Google's search engine will be "extinct" within 3-5 years, replaced by AI platforms that will fragment the search landscape. This paradigm shift means businesses building their entire strategy on search visibility are constructing their foundation on borrowed space.

Through compelling case studies and tactical advice, Bannister outlines a smarter approach to marketing: becoming omnipresent in your target market through a proper marketing funnel that educates at the top, builds trust in the middle, and only presents offers to already-engaged audiences. His neighborhood-specific strategy for a roofing contractor demonstrates how targeted messaging and multi-channel presence can transform results without relying on Google's unpredictable algorithms.

Whether you're currently frustrated with your marketing results or simply want to future-proof your business against the coming AI revolution, this episode offers a roadmap to build what truly matters – a brand that lives in customers' minds regardless of algorithm changes or platform shifts. It's time to break free from digital heroin and rediscover what genuinely drives sustainable growth.

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Fifteen years ago today, Tim Brown was in a psychiatric ward, struggling with addiction and a distorted sense of reality. Now he's the founder of a successful marketing agency helping contractors across the country. This profound synchronicity frames our powerful conversation about recovery, purpose, and the journey to authentic success.

Tim's story isn't just about quitting substances—it's about discovering a new way of living. We explore how recovery provides a framework for rebuilding your internal compass after addiction disrupts your ability to trust your instincts. Tim shares how he's replaced artificial highs with genuine adventures, from silent meditation retreats that brought him to tears to swimming with sharks and building businesses that serve others.

The conversation takes fascinating turns as we examine the parallels between recovery principles and business ethics. Tim reveals how his approach to marketing for home service contractors mirrors his philosophy of recovery—creating genuine value, practicing  radical honesty, and ensuring every exchange benefits both parties. We dive deep into the psychology of sales, discussing how to create authentic connections without manipulation.

Perhaps most movingly, Tim opens up about overcoming self-sabotage and learning self-compassion. "How would I treat a friend?" becomes his guiding question in both personal and professional life. He explains the fundamental difference between simply abstaining from substances and truly recovering—finding meaning, purpose, and joy through service to others.

Whether you're in recovery yourself, know someone who is struggling, or simply want to live with greater authenticity and purpose, Tim's journey offers profound wisdom about what it means to let go of control and find your true north. Join us for this candid, inspiring conversation about transformation and the unexpected gifts that can emerge from our darkest moments.

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Welcome to the Successful Life Podcast with Corey Berrier. In this episode, Corey addresses service technicians and comfort advisors about the critical issue of using technical jargon in customer interactions. He emphasizes that confusing customers with complex terminology can significantly hinder sales. Corey's main message is to replace technical jargon with clear, relatable language to build trust, increase sales, and ensure customer retention. Through real-life examples and practical tips, Corey illustrates the power of metaphors and simple language. He encourages technicians to become translators who make complex HVAC concepts understandable. By doing so, technicians can create long-term customer relationships and grow their business. Corey concludes with a challenge: rethink how you explain technical concepts to homeowners, test it out, and watch the difference it makes. Don't forget to share this episode and leave a five-star review!

00:00 Introduction to the Successful Life Podcast
00:16 The Invisible Sales Killer: Technical Jargon
02:00 The Power of Clear Communication
02:35 Real-World Examples and Metaphors
04:56 The Importance of Customer-Friendly Language
10:31 Ego and the Technician's Language
14:19 Recap and Easy Wins
15:51 Challenge and Conclusion

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Meet Erin Mahoney, a trailblazing entrepreneur who's redefining what it means to be a female business owner in the historically male-dominated roofing industry. As founder of The RoofHer in Columbus, Ohio, Erin's journey from addiction to successful business ownership offers a powerful blueprint for resilience and determination in the face of seemingly insurmountable obstacles.

Throughout our conversation, Erin candidly shares the challenges she's encountered as one of the mere 4.6% of women in the roofing field. Rather than letting gender bias defeat her, she turned knowledge into her superpower, pursuing extensive training and mastering hands-on skills that many of her male counterparts lacked. "I had to know way more than the boys had to know," she explains, revealing how she transformed potential disadvantages into her competitive edge.

What truly sets Erin's story apart is how she navigated the darker chapters of her entrepreneurial journey. When a former employer registered her trademarked business name to block her progress, Erin found herself at a crossroads – retaliate or respond with grace. Drawing on principles learned through four years of sobriety and recovery, she chose the harder but ultimately more powerful path forward. "I know there's no peace in retaliation," she reflects, "but I also know I have a voice for a reason, and I'm done being silenced."

The parallels between Erin's recovery journey and her business challenges reveal profound insights about personal transformation. Her description of rebuilding herself after addiction resonates universally: "When you feel like you're just broken and all the pieces are laying on the ground... the cool part is you get to pick them up and form them into a foundational structure that is not breakable, and you can leave pieces on the ground that don't serve you anymore."

Erin's story isn't just about roofing – it's about finding purpose through adversity, transforming trauma into strength, and creating space for authenticity in environments that resist change. Her pink truck isn't just a marketing gimmick; it's a bold statement about claiming space in an industry that wasn't designed for women, yet desperately needs their perspective and talent.

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The fear of making a decision runs deep in our psychology—whether you're contemplating a $20,000 HVAC system or taking your first step toward sobriety. As someone who's walked both paths, I've discovered that sales objections and recovery hesitations share remarkable similarities.

When customers say "I need to think about it" or "I should check with my spouse first," they're often masking deeper fears. Just like someone struggling with addiction who wonders "Where will the fun go if I get sober?" or "What if I can't stick with it?" The underlying message is the same: change is terrifying. Most fascinatingly, refusing to make a decision is itself a decision—specifically, a choice to stay exactly where you are.

The key insight I've gained from both worlds is that pushing people never works. Whether you're selling HVAC systems or supporting someone's recovery journey, authenticity and honest communication create trust, while pressure tactics destroy it. People have an uncanny ability to sense when you're being incongruent or manipulative. That's why taking a genuine interest in their concerns, practicing active listening, and offering solutions rather than sales pitches creates better outcomes for everyone involved.

Your success, whether in business or in supporting others through life transitions, depends on understanding that people make decisions for their reasons, not yours. By validating concerns without judgment, asking thoughtful questions, and creating space for autonomous decision-making, you help others navigate change in a way that respects their journey. This approach not only leads to better business outcomes but also more meaningful human connections.

Have you noticed this pattern in your own life? How might approaching difficult conversations with more curiosity and less pressure change your relationships—both professional and personal? I'd love to hear your experiences.

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