Suddenly Different

What if you were asked to write your own eulogy — not once, but twice?

In this deeply honest episode of Suddenly Different, Leigh-Anne Sharland sits with Ashley Jo Janssen, author of Tides of Great Waves of Grace, to explore the moment that radically changed the trajectory of her life.

During addiction recovery, Ashley was asked to write a eulogy as if her life had ended due to substance abuse. Later, she was asked to write a second eulogy — one that reflected a long life shaped by sobriety, healing, forgiveness, and truth. Placing those two eulogies side by side revealed something undeniable: two possible endings, and one powerful choice.

In this conversation, Leigh-Anne and Ashley explore:

• How trauma and unresolved grief shape coping mechanisms

• Why self-forgiveness is one of the hardest and most essential parts of recovery

• The difference between surviving and truly living

• The role of family, faith, and community support in healing

• Why sobriety is not just about abstaining, but relearning how to feel

• And how choosing a little “razzle dazzle” — joy, presence, and intention — can be an act of rebellion and hope

Before you listen, a gentle note: this episode includes references to addiction, grief, and recovery. Please take care and pause if it becomes heavy.

If you’ve ever felt caught between who you’ve been and who you could become, this episode is a reminder that the pen is still in your hand.

Because even after destruction, redemption is possible.
And even after the storm, life can be Suddenly Different.

For more information about Ashley Jo here are the links

website: https://www.thisisashleyjo.com/

book: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B0FV134LCV/

Also available on Kindle Unlimited

⚠️ Trigger Warning:
This episode includes discussion of child sexual abuse, exploitation, trafficking, and trauma. Listener discretion is advised.

Silence is not neutral.
Silence is where abuse hides.

In this powerful and unflinching episode of Suddenly Different, I’m joined by Fur Wale, award-winning speaker, founder of SHE Talks, and ambassador for Project Karma.

Together, we break the silence around child sexual exploitation and trafficking — crimes that continue to thrive in secrecy, stigma, and social taboo.

Fur speaks with raw honesty about:

• The global and local reality of child exploitation

• Why silence protects perpetrators and isolates victims

• How grooming, abuse, and trauma hide in plain sight

• The long-term nervous system and identity impact of childhood sexual abuse

• Why speaking openly is not just healing — it is protective

We also explore what ordinary people can do to help protect children, how survivors can reclaim voice without re-traumatisation, and why awareness must lead to action.

This conversation aligns deeply with my advocacy around Taking the Boo out of Taboo — because when we name what is hidden, we reduce its power.
When we speak truth, we create the possibility of safety, justice, and healing.

If this episode brings up difficult emotions, please don’t carry them alone.
In Australia, support is available via Lifeline (13 11 14) or 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732).
International listeners can find local support at findahelpline.com.

To learn more about Fur’s work, visit shetalks.com.au.
To support or learn about Project Karma’s work in rescuing and rehabilitating children, visit projectkarma.org.au/what-we-do.

Because silence is the abuser’s shield — and voice is how we begin to dismantle it.

What happens after suicide — for the people left behind?

At nineteen, Katie Bingham lost her ex-boyfriend to suicide. In this deeply honest conversation, Katie shares what it truly means to live on after sudden loss — navigating PTSD, numbness, grief, and the long journey back to safety in her body.

Together, we explore how trauma lives in the nervous system, why shutdown and hypervigilance are natural protective responses, and how understanding neurodiversity can change the trajectory from shame to healing. Katie reflects on receiving her ADHD and autism diagnosis later in life, and how that understanding helped her make sense of patterns that began after trauma.

This episode is not about the act of suicide. It is about recovery, choice, embodiment, and creating safe spaces — especially for neurodivergent children — so fewer people carry invisible wounds into adulthood.

A gentle and grounding conversation for anyone living after loss, supporting someone with PTSD, or seeking trauma-informed understanding of the nervous system.

Content note: This episode includes discussion of suicide and mental health. Please take care as you listen and reach out for support if needed.

Midlife is often framed as a slow decline — a time to step back, tone it down, or quietly make room for others. But what if that story is simply wrong?

In this episode of The Suddenly Different Podcast, I’m joined by Susan Braund, coach, mentor and creator of Your Third Act Roadmap, to explore why midlife is not an ending — it’s a strategic turning point.

Susan shares her own suddenly different moment, pivoting from a high-performing career in advertising and media into coaching and behavioural strategy when success no longer felt meaningful. Together, we unpack the four “currencies” she believes matter most in this stage of life:

• Curiosity — staying relevant by asking better questions
• Energy — protecting what fuels you instead of running on empty
• Presence — commanding influence without proving or performing
• Resilience — not endurance, but recovery, rhythm and sustainability

We also explore ageism, identity beyond job titles, the pressure to “do it all,” the impact of social media narratives on midlife women, and how experience becomes a strategic advantage — not a liability.

This is a grounded, honest conversation for women who don’t want to fade out, burn out, or reinvent themselves from scratch — but are ready to realign, choose differently, and design a third act on their own terms.

If you’re navigating change, questioning what’s next, or sensing there’s more available to you than the story you’ve been sold — this episode is for you.

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Shame is not something we’re born with — it’s something we inherit, absorb, and internalise as we grow.
For many survivors of childhood abuse, shame behaves like an acquired injury: one that deepens as awareness grows, and one that silently shapes identity, boundaries, relationships, and self-worth.

In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Kabinga Mazaba shares the moment her adult life became suddenly different. After decades of carrying secrets, pain, and silence, her body collapsed under the weight of everything she had been holding. In an emergency room, she realised she wasn’t dying — she was suffocating under shame.

This episode explores:
✨ How shame becomes layered through childhood, adolescence, and adulthood
✨ Why repeated life events reinforce our deepest (and false) beliefs about ourselves
✨ The courage it takes to unlearn inherited identities
✨ Self-forgiveness as a foundational step toward self-love
✨ Breaking generational patterns and raising children with truth, safety, and openness
✨ Reclaiming life through choice, voice, and compassion

Kabinga reminds us that healing doesn’t erase what happened — it rewrites what we believe about ourselves. Her story is a testament to courage, truth-telling, and the radical power of choosing a new way forward.

Trigger warning: This episode contains discussions of childhood abuse, shame, and trauma. Please listen with care.

Read Kabinga's Book

C.O.N.F.R.O.N.T. Reclaim Your Life

If you need support:
🇦🇺 Australia – Lifeline 13 11 14
🇺🇸 USA – Suicide & Crisis Lifeline 988

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What if the moment you fear you're breaking down is actually the moment your body begins to break open?
In this profound conversation, physiotherapist and TRE pioneer Richmond Heath shares the unexpected turning point that reshaped his entire life — a Vipassana meditation where his body began to move on its own.

What could have been dismissed as strange—or even pathologised—became the doorway to liberation.
Richmond takes us inside that moment of spontaneous tremoring, the confusion and awe, and the slow unraveling of chronic pain, burnout, and held-tight survival patterns he didn’t know were running his life.

We explore:

• The difference between breaking down and breaking open

• Why the body remembers how to heal, even when the mind doesn’t

• The ancient roots of tremoring as a natural stress-release mechanism

• Physiological maturity and how it shifts resilience, presence, and emotional capacity

• Why high performers, first responders, and men’s groups are changing through TRE

• The quiet, subtle experiences that become “suddenly different” turning points

Richmond’s story reminds us that surrender isn’t weakness — it’s a biological invitation.
A pathway back to groundedness, clarity, and the freedom to live life from a deeper, steadier place.

If you’ve ever felt like you were holding too much, coping alone, or standing at the edge of burnout, this episode offers a radically compassionate reframe:
Your body may not be breaking down. It may finally be showing you how to come home to yourself.

Learn more about Richmond’s work at treaustralia.com and menergy.org.au.

What happens when two unexpected truths collide and force you to rethink who you are?

For Mitchell Parkins, life changed in a single season. First came the discovery of a long-hidden family secret — an Aboriginal ancestry that instantly reshaped his sense of identity, belonging and lineage. Then came a redundancy that stripped away the “safe” job, the title, and the version of success he’d spent years building.

But instead of breaking him, these moments opened him.

In this grounded and deeply human conversation, Mitch shares how identity, fatherhood, financial upheaval and a trip around Australia cracked him open to a life built on agency, contentment, and conscious choice.

We explore:
• What it feels like to uncover a family truth held in silence for 40 years
• The shame, resistance and beauty of reconnecting with culture
• How redundancy can shape — rather than shatter — your self-worth
• Using money as a tool for freedom instead of a measure of identity
• The difference between striving for “more” and creating contentment
• How fatherhood forces us to revisit our childhood, heal, and decide who we want to become
• Why collapse can create the space we’ve been too afraid to make

This episode is an invitation to anyone navigating change, identity disruptions, life pivots, or the quiet ache of “there must be more than this.”

A powerful reminder that one moment can make us suddenly different — but it’s what we choose next that defines us.

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For decades, Rachel Pietsch lived under the weight of religious rules, family expectations, and a belief that her feelings, instincts, and voice were somehow wrong. When her husband faced burnout, she was forced into strength — and in that pressure, her inner truth finally broke through.

In this conversation, Rachel shares her journey from being a silenced “church mouse” to becoming a woman who reclaimed her boundaries, questioned everything she was taught, and learned to trust her own voice. She opens up about emotional neglect, breaking harmful family cycles, and the transformative role therapy played in giving her permission to think, choose, and live for herself.

Today, Rachel helps others free their voices too — literally and emotionally.

Her story is a powerful reminder that courage often begins in the smallest moment: a boundary placed, a question asked, a truth spoken out loud.

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#FaithAndFreedom #HealingJourney #ReclaimingYourVoice
#ResilienceInAction #CourageToChange

What happens when the thing you barely notice becomes the one thing that threatens to take everything?

In this powerful episode of Suddenly Different, leadership mentor and speaker Julie Hyde shares her stage 3 melanoma story — beginning with a “wart” on her foot, dismissed, misdiagnosed, and quietly spreading.

Julie takes us inside the shock of hearing “it’s cancer,” the freefall that follows, and the choice to move from victim to self-leader. She speaks candidly about advocating for your body, navigating a broken system, the power of the pause, and how near-death clarity reshaped her work, relationships, and priorities.

This is a conversation about listening sooner, asking harder questions, and choosing life with fierce intention.

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What happens when life keeps testing you — again and again — and yet something inside still whispers, rise anyway?

In this deeply human and soul-soothing conversation, Leigh-Anne Sharland sits down with Karen Lyons — former teen mother, fitness entrepreneur, performer alongside Humphrey B. Bear, co-leader of a multi-million-dollar property venture, and now known as The Love Hypnotherapist.

Karen’s journey is breathtaking in its breadth:
✨ Four children by 21
✨ Returning to school as a young mum
✨ Fibromyalgia, Sjögren’s, Ehlers-Danlos, chronic pain & fatigue
✨ A car crash that changed everything
✨ Living in a tent after financial collapse
✨ Hip-hop dancing with her granddaughters — and paying for it
✨ Rebuilding again and again, always choosing love

Through illness, heartbreak, loss, reinvention, and extraordinary physical challenge, Karen kept listening to the quiet wisdom of her spirit — and found her way home to herself.

Today, she helps others rediscover self-worth, inner confidence, and self-love through compassionate hypnotherapy and deeply embodied understanding.

This episode is a reminder that:

🌿 The soul doesn’t break — it bends toward truth
🌿 Self-love is not indulgence — it is oxygen
🌿 Healing is not linear — it is layered, lived, and deeply personal
🌿 Sometimes the most powerful transformation begins when our bodies slow us down

If you need tenderness, truth, courage, and a reminder that you are not done yet — press play. Karen’s story will wrap around your heart and whisper:

You still get to rise. You still get to choose love. And you are never walking alone.

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#HealingJourney #ChronicIllnessWarrior #InvisibleIllness

#WomenWhoRise #TraumaInformedHealing

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