HIIIIII It's me- Tobby and this week we have another guest ep! I had the amazing opportunity to sit down with Aisha Kiani (they/she) to chat about race, identity, joy, activism and everything in between. Aisha is an education designer, literature curator, mother and the founder of I DREAM LIBRARY @idream_library, which focuses on doing work to design equitable education. I was v inspired and learned a lot from this lil convo, so tune in now and I hope it does the same for you as it did for me! :)

hi 各位～ 第三季華燈初上大家應該都看了吧! (沒看的話這集回暴雷 自行迴避哈哈哈) 這集我們不免俗的也是要來聊聊第三季，從華燈初上的的角色，探討感情觀。

～百合的愛情如何成熟但不世故

～幫阿達點一首美麗的笨女人

～Rose媽媽敢愛敢恨

～江漢不敢愛也不敢恨 膽小的人連棉花碰到都會痛

～蘇媽媽感情中的自卑心

大家有沒有特別喜歡或覺得自己像那個角色呢? 趕快留言跟我們分享一下! 🤠

Hey Suga bbs! Happy Tuesday ✿

Welcome back to the pod for 【PART 2】of my chat with Ryan Maeland.

This week we talked about male emotions and vulnerabilities in relations to POP CULTURE, RACE AND PHILOSOPHY.

✿ How pop culture influence masculinity

✿ Hollywood depiction of Asians

✿ What needs to change on a societal level and individual level?

✿ Who inspired Ryan's change? and how?

✿ Carl Jung's Anima and Animus theory of the collective unconscious

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Hey Suga bbs! Happy Monday ✿

This week it's just me, Ang, plus our first ever guest on the pod!

It was my honour to sit down with a dear friend of mine, Ryan Maeland, to chat about "Male Emotions and Vulnerabilities" in relations to race, spirituality, and philosophy. This is a topic Tobby and I have been wanting to cover for ages but not yet had the chance until now.

Ryan is the Partner and CCO at AND ASSOCIATES STUDIO. An open-sourced studio that focuses on Strategy and Brand Experience.

Ryan is also someone I have incredible conversations with in regards to spirituality, philosophy, the human experience and much more! I can't wait for you all to listen to this week's episode.

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COME BACK NEXT WEEK FOR 【PART TWO】 OF THE CONVERSATION.

hi 各位～ 這個禮拜我們要聊聊 為什麼要害怕平庸？為什麼大家都渴望成為卓越的人？

這集我們說到了:

~Exceptionalism 例外論

~成功學傳說

~成功學傳說對我們的傷害

~誰說你該成為卓越的人

~社群網站上接觸的人

~所以我如果不成為偉人要怎麼辦?

Hi people we are back! This week we talk the hot T word ~trauma~ the zeitgeist of Gen Z!

In this episode:

~Define trauma & the history of trauma

~How did trauma become trendy? Gen Z, tik tok #traumatok #storytime

~The problem with describing everything as trauma

~Profit & hype from trauma

~So what now?

隨著情人節的到來，糖媽咪們認真探討大家常常掛在嘴邊的一句話

「Love conquers all things --- 愛可以戰勝一切」

真的如此嗎？有愛就夠了嗎？還是愛其實是奢侈的？

在這個資訊發達 紙醉金迷(什麼夜上海台詞?)的年代，

「愛」到底是什麼？

♥ 糖媽咪們對愛的定義

♥ Tobby英文小教室：Limerence

♥ 對愛與關係的定義是如何形成的？

♥ 愛的五種語言- 5 Love Languages

♥ “我感覺他不愛我了” 是真的不愛還是用錯方式愛？

♥ 愛是與生俱來的還是學習來的？

♥ 大腦研究家說愛是一種最難戒掉的毒品

♥ 為什麼“有愛還是不夠”？

♥ 如果愛是需要練習的，那我們練習對了嗎？

♥ 愛不是種感覺，愛是一種能力

糖媽咪在此祝福大家每天都是情人節

每天都能♥蓋被被陪睡睡♥

Happy Lunar New Year!!

This week the mamis talked about

✤ beliefs vs LNY

✤ being grounded

✤ Asian dad's conditioning

✤ Teaching our grandmas about feminism (and gaslighting them lol)

✤ Tobby meditating on the idea of meditation???

HIIIII 這禮拜是一個重要的星期，就是ang的大壽！不免俗的來個紀念專訪好不好。這集我們會有個問與答，聊聊變老的各種心境，self identity，給自己年輕時的建議等等的。還有呢這集會是用雙語的方式呈現，大家聽聽看我們平常最自然的溝通模式。大家年假不無聊，給你們一集長的，溫馨的真心話人生的大冒險，大家趕快聽起來。♥♥♥

This week we dive deep into the world of ♥♥ LOVE ♥♥

More specifically---- Expectations in Love:

✣ Do expectations hinder or benefit relationships?

✣ Are there healthy expectations?

✣ Self-expectations

✣ Why we judging others

✣ Rejecting ourselves before others do

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