Unaffordable housing is forcing more New Zealanders to think about living with extended family members. People who haven't grown up with it, fear multi-generational living will be too stressful but the kind of stress it generates can be healthy to work with, says psychotherapist Dr Zoë Krupka. "The stress of living in a household where you have to negotiate your space, your role, yourself, is hard but it's productive stress," she tells Jim Mora.