In our relationship, whose the dominate one, whose the submissive one? Is there a balance? Can one be okay with being one or the other?If you could have someone narrate your life story, who would it be?When did you know you wanted to marry me?Should spouses care about each other more than the children?Why aren’t white criminals held to the same standards as black criminals?Were you raised with any beliefs that you now reject?Do you hear phantom noises in the shower or see things out of the corner of your eye that are not really there?