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Imagine walking into a sex store and finding not just toys, but a whole education on pleasure waiting for you. That's the world Nikki Kelly invites us into in this eye-opening conversation about what really happens behind the counter at adult stores.

Nikki isn't your typical sex educator—she's a spreadsheet-wielding analyst who approaches pleasure with both passion and precision. Her detailed breakdowns of product categories, from bullet vibrators to air pulse technology, transform how we understand these tools. We learn why some toys work better than others, how marketing language often misleads consumers, and what questions actually matter when selecting products for yourself or a partner.

The conversation shatters common myths about sex shops and their clientele. Contrary to what many assume, women make up the majority of customers in many stores, often shopping in groups and turning the experience into a normalized social activity. Meanwhile, we explore why men frequently shop online instead, highlighting how shame and discomfort still shape our relationship with pleasure.

Perhaps most enlightening is the discussion about size preferences and what women actually purchase. Research and sales data tell a story vastly different from what pop culture suggests, offering a reality check that could transform how partners communicate about pleasure. Throughout, Nikki emphasizes that sex toys aren't competitors to human connection but collaborative tools that enhance intimacy when approached without ego or insecurity.

Whether you're curious about the latest innovations in pleasure technology, wondering what questions to ask before making a purchase, or simply want to understand your own or your partner's body better, this conversation offers frank, funny, and deeply informative insights that will change how you think about pleasure forever.

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https://open.spotify.com/show/7q5Tqe5CkhW84nHJsZg6nD?si=jCsiONjtRgmaT_O0GTEOsA

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The journey of reconnecting intimately after welcoming a child is a struggle so many couples face in silence. When desire fades and bodies feel unfamiliar, both partners can find themselves adrift in frustration and confusion, unsure how to rebuild what once came naturally.

Through one listener's painfully honest question, we explore the science behind postpartum desire and why intimacy often takes a backseat after baby. The reality? Your diminished sex life isn't personal rejection—it's biology at work. With 83% of new mothers reporting little to no desire months after birth, these changes represent a normal phase rather than a permanent relationship shift.

I break down the mechanics of desire using the car metaphor: there's an accelerator (turn-ons) and brakes (turn-offs). After childbirth, a woman's brakes are firmly engaged by physical discomfort, hormone fluctuations, and extreme fatigue. No amount of pressing the gas pedal will move forward if those brakes remain locked. The path back to connection starts with gently easing those brakes—creating safety, reducing pressure, and rebuilding non-sexual intimacy first.

We explore responsive desire (feeling aroused only after positive stimulation begins), the importance of lubrication, and practical ways to rebuild connection outside the bedroom. For partners with higher desire, I offer compassionate strategies to manage frustration while supporting recovery. From hormonal realities that temporarily suppress libido to communication approaches that foster emotional safety, this episode provides a roadmap for navigating one of parenthood's most challenging transitions.

Whether you're in the thick of postpartum disconnection or supporting someone who is, tune in to understand how intimacy can indeed return—with patience, care, and a willingness to discover new forms of connection along the way. Subscribe, share your experiences, and remember that this challenging phase will eventually shift with the right understanding and support.

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Curious about going big? This candid exploration of extreme size play delivers everything you need to know about venturing beyond typical bedroom toys. Whether you're intrigued by supersized dildos, fisting, or just something a bit more substantial than average, we break down the facts without judgment or unnecessary alarm.

Let's address what everyone worries about first: yes, there are legitimate risks to consider. The delicate tissues of both vagina and anus can experience microtears, muscle strain, or even infection when play becomes too intense or hygiene practices lapse. We candidly discuss the real concerns while separating fact from fear-mongering. That common worry about prolapse? We tackle that head-on with medical reality rather than urban myths. 

The heart of this episode focuses on practical safety strategies that dramatically reduce these risks. From the non-negotiable importance of quality lubrication to the gradual progression that respects your body's limits, we outline a comprehensive approach to safer size play. Learn why body-safe materials matter, how proper gloves protect both partners, and why aftercare deserves as much attention as the act itself. We compare vaginal and anal considerations, highlighting their different anatomical realities and safety needs.

Beyond the physical aspects, we emphasize that consensual kink exploration is a valid expression of sexuality deserving of respect, not shame. Our approach combines pleasure-positive encouragement with responsible guidance, including suggestions for finding kink-aware healthcare providers who can offer judgment-free support. Ready to explore your desires with confidence? This episode equips you with the knowledge to chase those big thrills safely, smartly, and on your own terms. Remember – it's not about pushing limits, but expanding pleasure with awareness and care.

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Hey lovers—big news from the Supersex universe. Our beloved co-host Sherman is stepping away from the mic indefinitely (we love you, Sherm 💔). But don’t panic—we’re not slowing down. We’re doubling the fun.

In this special update, Jordan introduces two new voices joining the Supersex crew: psychologist and sexologist Kate Campbell, and female health nurse and sexologist Tarsh Wilson. Kate brings sharp insight and heart-opening perspectives. Tarsh brings fearless realness (and vulva shoes). Together, they’ll help take Supersex to new, wild, wonderful places.

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Step behind the velvet curtain of Perth's exclusive sensuous world with Dream Kitty, the female powerhouse revolutionising the city's swingers party scene. In what might be the most eye-opening conversation we've had on Super Sex, Dream Kitty shatters stereotypes about lifestyle parties while revealing how her coaching background creates uniquely safe spaces for sexual exploration.

"Most people going to these parties for the first time have never been seen naked by more than one person," she explains, detailing how she personally guides nervous newcomers through their fears. Unlike the seedy male-dominated spaces you might imagine, her female-led events prioritize consent, comfort and connection—a formula that's earned her more validation in three years than hosts with a decade in the game.

Dream Kitty takes us through the fascinating psychology of attendees, from single men battling performance anxiety to women discovering bisexual desires they've kept hidden for years. We explore why Perth has become Australia's unexpected epicenter for the lifestyle scene, and how these events often strengthen rather than weaken relationships through enhanced communication and boundary-setting.

With international luxury lifestyle vacations in Bali and Thailand that sell out in minutes, themed parties with bus transportation to secret locations, and women-only events that create judgment-free zones for exploration, Dream Kitty is crafting experiences that transcend typical notions of "swingers parties." Whether you're lifestyle-curious or simply fascinated by human sexuality, this conversation offers rare insight into a world where adults rediscover the freedom of play—sexual and otherwise.

Curious about dipping your toes into the lifestyle? Follow Dream Kitty on Instagram or Red Hot Pie to learn about upcoming events, including her Halloween Soiree in October and Summer Sins in December. Just be sure to book early—these parties sell out faster than concert tickets!

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Ever had a fantasy that feels both thrilling and terrifying to share? The desire to watch your partner with someone else is far more common than you might think. This deeply honest exploration of cuckolding, hot-wifing, and consensual non-monogamy breaks down the psychology behind why so many of us (58% of men and 33% of women, according to research) harbor these desires.

We unpack the science behind the arousal—from the joy of witnessing your partner's pleasure (erotic compersion) to the dopamine rush of breaking cultural taboos. But beyond understanding why these fantasies emerge, we deliver practical guidance on how to communicate them without jeopardizing your relationship. Through carefully crafted conversation scripts and step-by-step approaches, we navigate the delicate territory between fantasy and reality.

The journey doesn't have to be all-or-nothing. We explore low-risk ways to dip your toes in these waters through erotic storytelling, roleplay, and fantasy exploration before considering involving actual third parties. Most importantly, we emphasize that successful exploration requires ongoing communication, clear boundaries, and regular emotional check-ins. Whether you're just curious about these desires or actively considering exploring them with your partner, this episode offers judgment-free guidance for keeping your relationship secure while expanding your intimate horizons.

Feeling curious, confused, or somewhere in between about your own fantasies? Join our community on Instagram and YouTube by searching Supersex Podcast or Jordan Walker Sexology for more candid conversations about pleasure, desire, and the beautiful complexities of human sexuality.

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Ready for a refreshingly honest take on sex education myths? Strap in as we take a sledgehammer to the biggest, most bizarre misconceptions swirling around teaching gender and sexuality in schools.

The myth that teaching LGBTQ+ topics somehow "turns kids gay" falls apart under scrutiny. Research consistently shows that queer identities remain stable across cultures and time periods regardless of visibility or acceptance. What inclusive education actually does? It creates safer environments where bullying decreases, empathy flourishes, and suicide rates among LGBTQ+ youth dramatically drop. The science is clear: we're not creating identities—we're saving lives.

Particularly fascinating is the connection between neurodivergence and queer identities. Studies reveal that autistic adolescents are up to 7.6 times more likely to express gender variance than their neurotypical peers. When we avoid these conversations in special education settings, we're failing the very students who need this support most.

As for the "kids are too young" argument, developmental research paints a different picture. By age 5, children have observed different family structures. By 8, they're asking questions about relationships. By 10-11, many have started puberty and nearly half have encountered pornography. The choice isn't whether they'll learn about these topics—it's whether they'll learn accurate information in a supportive environment or pieced-together misinformation from TikTok and playground rumors.

And that viral panic about children identifying as cats? Pure internet conspiracy with zero basis in psychological research. No credible clinical manual recognizes "species dysphoria" as a diagnosis. When fact-checkers investigated these claims, they found no evidence supporting them.

The evidence is overwhelming: comprehensive, inclusive sex education reduces bullying, improves mental health outcomes, delays sexual debut, lowers STI rates, and fosters healthier relationships. We don't make children queer by teaching about queer people any more than we turn them into ancient Egyptians by teaching history.

Looking for more resources? Visit jordanwalkerrse.com for adult education or youwontlearnthisatschool.com for young people navigating gender identity questions, especially those with additional needs. Remember, awkward is just a step on the way to awesome!

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What happens when we're too uncomfortable to talk with girls about their bodies? Women's health nurse and sexologist Tarsh Wilson joins the podcast with a wake-up call for parents and anyone who loves a young girl growing up in today's hypersexual world.

The statistics are alarming - girls are experiencing their sexual debut as young as 13-14, yet many parents still believe these conversations can wait. Tarsh and Jordan explore why this approach leaves girls vulnerable to everything from preventable health conditions to dangerous sexual encounters. Through candid stories from Tarsh's gynecological practice and personal experiences, they break down why using proper terminology (it's vulva, not "flower"!), normalising period talk, and creating early "nests of safety" around these conversations isn't just good parenting - it could save lives.

Dark humour lightens this deeply important topic as they discuss everything from vulva puppets to the misconceptions about tampon sizes. Particularly compelling is their focus on fathers raising daughters, and how men often lack the resources to navigate these discussions despite desperately wanting to support their girls. This episode goes beyond awkward birds-and-bees talks to show how building honest communication from early childhood builds the foundation for healthier, safer young women.

Ready to raise girls who understand their bodies, recognise their autonomy, and have the language to advocate for themselves? This episode is your starting point. Share it with a parent, uncle, aunt or caregiver who wants to do better for the girls they love.

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Ever felt like your body was rushing to the finish line while everyone else was still warming up? You're not alone. Welcome to the premiere episode of Sexplained, where we're tackling a question that many think but few dare to ask: "Why do I cum so quickly and why am I so sensitive after orgasming?"

Sex educator Jordan Walker dives into the science of sexual sensitivity with honesty, expertise, and zero judgment. Drawing from years of experience and current sexology studies, Jordan unpacks why some bodies (particularly those with vulvas) respond quickly and intensely to stimulation. Rather than framing this as a problem to be fixed, we explore how heightened sensitivity can be understood as a natural variation—one that simply requires different approaches to maximise pleasure for everyone involved.

The episode offers practical strategies for those who experience quick orgasms: techniques for slowing arousal, methods for managing post-orgasm sensitivity, communication approaches for partners, and ways to redefine sexual satisfaction beyond traditional scripts. Jordan tackles the physiology behind the "too much" feeling after climax and provides actionable advice for extending pleasure without pushing personal boundaries. Most importantly, listeners will find validation that their bodies aren't broken—they're just uniquely responsive.

Whether you're someone who climaxes quickly, a partner of someone who does, or just curious about the wide spectrum of sexual response, this episode challenges limiting beliefs about what "good sex" looks like. By expanding our definition of sexual satisfaction and learning to work with—not against—our bodies' natural responses, we open ourselves to more authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences. Tune in every Friday for new episodes that blend science, humour, and practical wisdom to level up your understanding of sex, relationships, and pleasure.

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Ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about commitment? Forget the 1970s key parties and shag carpet stereotypes—modern swinging has evolved into something far more nuanced and relationship-centered than pop culture would have you believe.

We're diving deep into the world of consensual non-monogamy, where couples trade partners but still prioritise their primary emotional connection. It's not about escaping commitment; it's about expanding it. Research suggests that swingers often report equal or higher relationship satisfaction compared to monogamous couples, and it's not just about the sexual variety. The lifestyle demands radical honesty, exceptional communication skills, and the courage to face feelings like jealousy head-on.

Between the sheets (satin or otherwise), we explore who's actually swinging in 2024, how the community is slowly diversifying beyond its historically white, middle-class roots, and the concrete benefits many couples experience. From the psychological boost of the "Coolidge effect" that rekindles desire through novelty to the personal growth that comes with "self-expansion theory," swinging offers unique advantages for those emotionally mature enough to navigate its challenges. Most surprisingly, swingers typically have more conversations about emotional safety and consent than many monogamous couples—a skill set that enhances every aspect of their relationship.

Is swinging sustainable long-term? Is it just for thrill-seekers, or can it genuinely deepen intimacy? We tackle these questions and more, acknowledging that while this lifestyle certainly isn't for everyone, it represents a legitimate relationship choice that deserves understanding rather than judgment. Whether you're curious, considering, or just want to better understand different relationship models, this episode offers insights that might just transform how you think about connection, commitment, and what it means to truly support your partner's happiness.

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