Explicit?  Well, probably because I say this topic really pisses me off and I think I say "damn" as well.  You be the judge.

But honestly, I am so mad when it comes to this big pissing contest that happens with parenting, business, and people in general.  Life is tough enough without someone trying to hate on you.  So, if you're having success in an area, share it, but don't tear someone else down if you don't like the way they are doing something.

Play dates, mom/dad groups should be uplifting and a source of stress relief, NOT something people dread because of cliques and judging.

Release the negativity.

Guest Kathy Bourque (www.kathybourque.com) joins us to discuss the Imposter Complex and how its lies are taking the wind out of our sails.  The Imposter Complex, those inner voices that lie to us and she says you can break free from your defeating self-talk.  Listen in to see how she incorporates daily routine and a strong self-reflection on her core values and intentions to make every interaction full of purpose.  Special gift for listeners, please go to www.kathybourque.com to download her 40 page workbook that is parent-tested, business friendly, and ready for you.  Want more?  Join Kathy in McCook, Nebraska in April at her Power and Peace seminar.

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Think you have your priorities in check?  I discuss my biggest gut check when I found that my schedule did not reflect my so-called priorities in life.  I had no scheduled time for family and certainly not enough for my faith or fitness.  Be ready for your own gut check during this episode.

My wife, Alisha, joins me today to discuss "Mom Guilt".  In fact, she doesn't even want to be on this podcast for that very reason... because she feels like she does not deserve to share since she often feel inadequate as a parent.  Mom Guilt (which is really dad or mom guilt) is that feeling like you never do enough, you're failing as a parent, or even the guilt with taking time for yourself.

Listen in today to get real and authentic as we tackle the demons within.

Did you get a coach?  Or an accountability partner?  Why not!?!  Here we discuss how your current social circle or family is most likely keeping you in your tiny insignificant "box" and how you need to break free - it will change your life!

Who do you have that is going to tell you how things are?  No sugar coating, no being easy on you, but is going to push you to new heights?

Why is it that the BEST in every profession has a coach (when they themselves could in fact coach), it's because they know they can always improve.  It's not being weak to ask for help, it's a sign of strength!

Choose one of your top 5 goals and commit to finding a coach or accountability partner (not living in your house or your bestie) - that will commit to pushing you higher than you even known.

How can you CHOOSE your day?  Is it possible to actually decide how good or how bad your day is going to be?  We discuss today that by adding in a few moments of appreciation, that you can sway your day towards abundance.  1.  Before your feet hit the floor, do two minutes of gratitude.  2.  thank you cards - clients, family, friends --> imagine if you got a card, how would you feel?  3.  Verbalize - Say it out loud!!!!

Time is a wastin' - are you sucked in to social media, waiting in line, stuck in traffice, dealing with the wrong type of clients, so called emergencies that could be handled by other members of your team, etc.  The list goes on and on, and it's distracting us from what is really important.  It's taking us away from opportunity.  It's time for a mind detox and to get present with your loved ones and especially with yourself.

It doesn't matter who you are; disaster will strike.  And do with without regards to age, race, or status.  So what are you going to do.  We discuss "torpedoes happen" because the bigger the ship, the more likely you're gonna have a torpedo hit.  As Mike Tyson has been quoted, "Everyone has a plan until they get hit in the face".  Kids and adults alike, we all have our challenges.  Also, make sure to check out:  www.peptalkforparents.com for more tip and helpful resources including our newsletter!

Religious or not - you were born to be the absolute best you can be.  And your kids take that to another level.  It's time for you to accept that truth and play bigger.  You're gonna love your homework this week - its going to change your family forever!