"Every excuse is valid" Vusi Thembekwayo

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Things that I think everyone should know about themselves:

1. Medical condition/ blood group.

2. Your value system

3. How you respond to stress

4. Personality/Identity

5. Strengths and weaknesses

6. Purpose

7. What makes you happy.

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In this episode I talk about a personal experience on refusing to allow people in. And it's possibly the most right answer to why I have never dated, because I have quite a number of reasons why I have never been in a romantic relationship ( ͡❛ ͜ʖ ͡❛) .  Restricting your heart comes from a place of insecurities, hurt and fear while guarding your heart has maturity in it because you are governed by a value system.

XoXo

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I don't know about you, I started the lockdown with a lot of energy. But as time went by especially in the month of September, I have experienced days that I don't want to get out of bed. Days where I don't feel like working on anything. I just wanted to watch movies/series eat and sleep.

 How are you holding up?

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The heart is defined as the subconscious part of the mind

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You have been meaning to do something for yourself but each time you allow fear to cripple you that you end up not pursuing your desires. Ask yourself, for how long will I allow fear to rule over me? What is the worst that could happen when I decide to go after my desires? 

Let's shoot the guns for the remaining 4 or less months.

If you like this episode, please share it out with your friends.

XoXo.

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I don't want to be so caught up in

-What was supposed to be (didn't happen)

- What is supposed to be (the future)

That I miss out on what is...

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Do you define your own value  system and how do you do it?

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Well! We talked a lot in this episode. I must say that I am enjoying every conversation so far. I think I had belittled my friends before (a*). They have a lot to offer (*_*)

We talked image, owning your personality, self discovery, building skills, God ordering our steps and so much more. 

Enjoy listening!

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Stop feeling like a bother; ask for help. 

Stop being too numb and/or angry at your past; you have a chance to live a full life.

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